Hey mate,
Sorry, I missed this thread, somehow.
DAMN YOU! I shall taketh my vengeance upon thou and smite ye with fury that shall echo in the heavens!
But moving along . . .
I may very well not be typical, and certainly I'm not 'college-aged', but as near as I can tell, you don't get to choose whether you're an atheist or not. Nor do others get to tell you whether you are a 'real' atheist, whatever the hell that is supposed to mean.
I know right!
I think a lot of it has to do with atheists or even theists unwilling to admit that somebody can leave either group. This is why atheists complain about Christians telling former Christians who are now atheists that they were never Christians. Atheists though have a tendency of doing the exact same thing though but the only issues is that it is exceedingly rare that a full blown atheist going back to theism.
Hence my embarrassment at this topic. I was the hardest of the hardest when it came to atheism hence my long held anti-theism. The only reason I softened up was because of my lengthy encounters with theists in conservative movements and my re-humanizing of them.
If you're not theistic, then you're an atheist, basically. Though what you claim, or label yourself as is of course up to you.
I an undoubtedly apathetic toward it all and don't care about the exist of a god anymore. To me it is silly considering that many deities are proven without a shadow of a doubt to be logically flawed and paradoxical and proven beyond the realm of logic to be nonexistent yet people still believe in their existence. They care not about evidence but emotion.
So this means there are millions of people who pray to something they cannot intellectually defend yet do it anyways. Even if I got to my knees and confessed with great sincerity that I am a Christian I will always hold intellectual aptitude to realize this deity does not exist. Meaning that even in such a circumstance I am an atheist that nobody would ever guess.
Atheists are actually not a group, and are not 'cohesive' in any real fashion. There is a slightly worrying trend to try and make something out of atheism that it's not. Whilst that has always been the case amongst some theists, I think it's a more recent thing for atheists to make the same mistake.
Atheist are a group if you are discussing atheists as a whole. A group is only distinguishable if compared to another set of people, like theist. Now if I said atheist are a party, organization of team then that is different because it assert cohesion, ideology and collective intent.
Anyway...I wouldn't look to the 'loudest' atheists to get any sort of clarity on what atheism actually is. Ultimately it's not much. Certainly not enough to have loud, self-righteous proclamations about.
I know atheism is not much. I have been one as a child without knowing it and have been one for quite some years. Of course the latter case was with greater sincerity and understanding.