I surely hope that I am incapable of unlearning that which I know is true. The danger for a believer lies in sin.
"For if we go on sinning deliberately after receiving the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins" (Hebrews 10:26)
There are many people who profess that they are Christians who love their sin more than they love God. And these "Christians" never find rest, are always question their faith, and have no peace with regard to their eternal future and security.
Jesus said, "if you love me, keep my commandments".
There are many of those who aren't christian, like myself, and find our rest and some of us eternal security by other means. I know what scripture says.
My co-worker is like yourself cannot divorce herself from god even hypothetical thinking. It's almost as if she, personally, is making god upset for turning away. It may be love and devotion to her but I find love and devotion comes from a person's choice to be with the one they love. If it isn't a relation-ship and both parties expect the other to love each other, that's not love. That's an unhealthy relationship based on dependency.
In other words, in American culture, we pride ourselves in independence. Instead of wanting things to be food fed to us on a positive note, some of us rather work for our success because that achievement of
putting in to one's success makes the relationship with whatever goal aimed for more worth receiving.
I get government checks each month. I've been food-fed all my life due to disability. If the government was god then I'm literally dependent on him for everything-shelter, food, education, everything. I put nothing into it. That saddens me. When I see people depending on the government, a lot of people don't want to and want to succeed in their own riches and careers.
Yet, when it comes to god it's different. I don't see how. If anything, work to build that relationship with god and having that choice
to follow is better than being coerced or having an ultimatum to follow and cannot turn away thereafter. It takes the "ever after" away.
I don't understand how people can see god in a positive light under that type of worship and dependency. It's not a sin to have a choice to follow. If anything, I'd assume god would desire your choice in service over your obedience in worship. Your reverence rather than your worship.
But I'm going by how people define god. If I went off of scripture, god is the breathe of life and jesus is the life, death, and resurrection of our spirit. All scripture quoting in the world cannot erase the foundation. So, I always ask people's opinions rather than scripture. Scripture is common sense but seeing how others interpret scripture is so different it kind of shocks me.
I kind of wish Christians as a whole saw things in other people's shoes. Many wars have been caused because the religious can't see the other person's shoes. Believers aren't causing wars but the manner of their language is very oppressive. I don't know if you guys see it, but it's one thing to read it in scripture and toss it aside. It's a whole 'nother thing to hear it from people who I would hope think on their own how their belief affects others.
I mean, Christianity in and of itself is beautiful, but when I see how it, the religion, affects people negatively (not the fault of the person), then I see something wrong with the belief. Yet believers look past that. If someone saved my life but killed someone else, that would change how I see that person. It's a contradiction in actions. So, I don't see how a believer can value his or her own salvation but oppress others indirectly or directly by even offering others salvation without stepping into the others shoes and understanding
their belief in their eyes not your own.
Christianity is the only religion I know very well. Any god of abraham religion has a worship-ultimatum factor. It's like seeing people in a locked room telling people who are free they should come in and feel the closeness they have with other believers. To be outside would be a sin.
Never understood that line of thinking. I'm hoping I get to the point I would no longer have to.