leahrachelle
Active Member
You misunderstood. Yes, I want to LEARN. But like you said, this is a discussion/debate. And yes, I feel that a lot of people are more trying to change me than they are actually debating. Which I do feel offended by. If I change during the course of a debate, fine - I learned. But I did not create this thread here to BE CHANGED.This kind of attitude isn't going to help you with the "learning" part of your title. You should share your views, but you shouldn't be afraid of change, and you certainly shouldn't assume everyone is trying to change you. It's a discussion/debate. Everyone puts in their ideas and the best way to approach it is to absorb the others' ideas. If you disagree with them after reflection, then, by all means, object.