It isn't an issue of recognizing moral choices. It is an issue of doing moral things (especially if you know what is and what is not moral).
Regardless, the first thing anyone must necessarily do is recognize what are moral issues and then discern which "side" one's opinions might see them falling on. The reality is that "doing moral things" is
NOT an objective item. What one person may consider entirely morally neutral (or even morally
correct) may be another persons "morally incorrect." This is
SO EASILY seen with things like Halloween (a pertinent example because it is coming up). My wife's parents wouldn't let her dress up or trick-or-treat because they deemed Halloween's roots to be from an evil source. So what is "doing moral things" with respect to Halloween? Can you tell me? Can you tell me in a way that isn't just you informing me of your particular opinions?
For example, certainly Reverend Jim Bakker and Tammy Fay Bakker knew that it was wrong to steal donations from starving Africans.
They knew other people would perceive it as wrong. This I am certain they knew because they were quick to try and hide their activities. Whether or not
they actually had moral scruples about stealing donations from starving Africans is a completely separate matter. I would argue that they DIDN'T have such moral scruples. They didn't care - otherwise they wouldn't have done it based on their own principles, or the "rewards" they experienced for themselves was used as a justification (along with other reasoning, probably) to over-ride their moral discernment.
It could be much like how I let my kids participate in Halloween REGARDLESS what my in-laws think about it. I don't have hang-ups about Halloween... THEY do... and I don't care one bit. Not even a shred. By your logic, I should still somehow "know" that Halloween is "wrong," based on the fact that other people discern it to be so. I don't have to care about what others think... and my moral judgments do not have to conform to the rest of society. That's not how it works, at all. Jim and Tammy Faye didn't have to believe it to be wrong to steal donations from Africans. And they either didn't, or they have justified it to themselves somehow. Whether they were racists, or figured those people would figure it out for themselves, or (since they were religious) reasoned that if it was "God's will" that those people live even without the donations, then they would, and it wouldn't be their own fault if those people died. To the point that they either had no moral hang-ups about their actions, or they justified it due to the perceived "good" they were experiencing due to their profiting from the stealing - and such justification is the mind's way of making the situation "right" from the eye of the actor.
Their show clearly pointed out that they were staving, and imitation tears streamed down Tammy's face.
Because they knew how this appearance would affect
OTHERS. They themselves though? Do you think those tears streaming down Tammy Faye's face were real? Truly?
But, even though they knew that they were sinning (doing wrong), they persisted.
Again - they knew others would judge it as wrong - and this is what they were ultimately worried about. NOT their own thoughts on the subject. If asked, they would have easily agreed that it was wrong of others to do what they were doing - but this likely would have only been to keep up appearances. Otherwise, they were definitely in the business of justifying their actions to themselves and must have fairly easily ignored their own thoughts on the matter (assuming they even cared as much as
you say they did), given how long they kept it up.
The TV miniseries "Roots" highlighted this issue, when the new master was too busy to listen to the complaints of Kunta Kinte as he was being tortured to accept the name "Toby" instead. The master was too busy reading the bible to have a discussion about the morality of torture and slavery (such a pious man). Surely the master knew that he was sinning, but he persisted in sinning more.
Again, I would say that the "master" in that instance was, instead, justifying his actions to himself. Whether that was to consider that "Kunta Kinte" was being disobedient and that this was "wrong" (like some like to claim others are being against "The Lord"), or he felt that black people were beneath people like himself or were unworthy of better. He was using some method of justification for his actions such that it over-rode any sort of moral issue he might otherwise have with the action. To see this, simply substitute a white, female child for "Kunta Kinte" and see if he would still be beating/torturing the individual. In that instance, his moral discernment may not have room for justification of the sort he allows himself for the black slave. He reasoned himself
out of it being a "sin" in other words.
It isn't enough to recognize sin, one must avoid it.
And? How does this idea refute anything I said about the difference between the "reality" of moral issues versus the "reality" of God? Please enlighten me. Right now the fact that you made a comment like this in reply to me just seems like you're standing on your own soap box out in left field without a ball to pitch back into the game.