so, bahaollah said 'avoid those who do not believe me, preserve strict guard over thyself, turn away from them'.
then, bahais why are you here in the forum? why are you not avoiding non-bahais like us?
Do you have the full passage and the source so I can read that in context?
Notably, not many Baha'is go on forums like this, and one reason is probably because they know they would encounter posters who would not agree with them, especially atheists. The attitude of some Baha'is towards atheists very condescending and I find that disgraceful, especially for a Faith that teaches unity.
I have no desire to avoid atheists or believers with different religions. Variety is the spice of life and I learn from everyone. Some Baha'is never learn anything because they don't venture outside their own Baha'i communities. But then since their attitude is that everything we will ever need is contained in the Revelation of Baha'u'llah, what is there to learn?
I used to be that kind of Baha'i when I first came here five years ago, but I have changed so much since then, and most of that change has come about by conversing with people who do not believe like me, especially atheists, and being challenged by them. What have I to fear if I am firm in my beliefs? Nothing.
Edited to add:
@bahamut19 provided the context. When Baha'u'llah said
avoid those who do not believe me, preserve strict guard over thyself, turn away from them He was addressing a king and talking about the affairs of the state.
Elsewhere, Baha'u'llah enjoined us to consort with all people.
“Consort with all men, O people of Bahá, in a spirit of friendliness and fellowship. If ye be aware of a certain truth, if ye possess a jewel, of which others are deprived, share it with them in a language of utmost kindliness and good-will. If it be accepted, if it fulfil its purpose, your object is attained. If anyone should refuse it, leave him unto himself, and beseech God to guide him. Beware lest ye deal unkindly with him. A kindly tongue is the lodestone of the hearts of men. It is the bread of the spirit, it clotheth the words with meaning, it is the fountain of the light of wisdom and understanding….”
Gleanings From the Writings of Bahá’u’lláh, p. 289
“Through each and every one of the verses which the Pen of the Most High hath revealed, the doors of love and unity have been unlocked and flung open to the face of men. We have erewhile declared—and Our Word is the truth—:
“Consort with the followers of all religions in a spirit of friendliness and fellowship.” Whatsoever hath led the children of men to shun one another, and hath caused dissensions and divisions amongst them, hath, through the revelation of these words, been nullified and abolished. From the heaven of God’s Will, and for the purpose of ennobling the world of being and of elevating the minds and souls of men, hath been sent down that which is the most effective instrument for the education of the whole human race.”
Gleanings From the Writings of Bahá’u’lláh, p. 95
“The second Taráz is to consort with the followers of all religions in a spirit of friendliness and fellowship, to proclaim that which the Speaker on Sinai hath set forth and to observe fairness in all matters.
They that are endued with sincerity and faithfulness should associate with all the peoples and kindreds of the earth with joy and radiance, inasmuch as consorting with people hath promoted and will continue to promote unity and concord, which in turn are conducive to the maintenance of order in the world and to the regeneration of nations. Blessed are such as hold fast to the cord of kindliness and tender mercy and are free from animosity and hatred.”
Tablets of Bahá’u’lláh, pp. 35-36