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Being A Homosexual is not a Sin.

rusra02

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
According to your words, you don't even know what God's moral laws are. To equate homosexuality with thievery is ludicrous. The verses in the bible were additions made by those who share the same views as yourself. They commit a grave sin by claiming that it's God's laws. Ambiguous guy said it all with the "ick factor". God is above such primitive thoughts.

1 Corinthians 6:9,10 mentions thieves right after mentioning homosexual practices. If you have evidence these verses were additions, please present it. There is no evidence but wishful thinking among proponents of such unnatural practices.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
I... kind of object to that assessment and the implications it has for virgins or people who choose to abstain from sex for any length of time. That someone chooses not to be promiscuous doesn't mean they're "repressing" something.

Unless you're asexual, I don't see how abstaining from sex for long periods of time is healthy. I also don't value virginity and see this idolization of virginity to be a sexist control scheme to control women's sexuality.

Being sexually active does not mean you are promiscuous. :facepalm:

But what I was talking about here is non-hetero people who repress their sexuality due to guilt and shame. That's more than just being abstinent. That's self-hatred.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
Just curious. Have you ever read the Entire Bible? Your description of the Bible being written by a nomadic tribe of sheep herders is most inaccurate. Nor were they ignorant religious fanatics. The Bible claims to be "inspired of God and beneficial for teaching, for reproving, for setting things straight, for disciplining in righteousness, *so that the man of God may be fully competent, completely equipped for every good work." I think such a claim should be investigated with an open mind.

Yes, I've looked at your book and believed in it for years. I also know my history. There's no need for you to try to use the Bible to prove itself. My comment stands.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
I often ponder if that is why there was/is such a tabboo concerning homosexuality in Abrahamic traditions.

Those verses are mistranslated and misinterpreted. The ancients didn't have any concept of sexual orientation as we do. To sum it up, they had no concept of "sexual orientation". Their ideas about sex were wrapped up in social mores and expectations to marry and have children. So the ancients didn't care if you were attracted to your same gender. In many cultures, it was fine for a married man to get it on with another male (in the case of Greco-Roman culture, it was fine for a citizen to have sex with a passive slave or adolescent).

So, with that in mind, those verses are probably referring to Pagan practices such as temple prostitution, pederasty and other Pagan practices. You have to keep in mind the context of such rules. The Jews were trying so hard to carve out a different identity from the surrounding cultures (because they really did have a different identity in the first place - it developed later) that they proscribed many practices that the non-Abrahamics were in involved in. So it was more of an anti-Pagan thing than anything to do with sex, probably.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
What about pedophiles?

Pedophiles or anyone else shouldn't feel guilt or shame over their attractions. That's counter-productive and unhealthy. We all should accept ourselves as we are. For those with desires that aren't legal to act on, they need to seek non-judgemental support to keep them from offending. But they should accept themselves first. Hating yourself causes lots of stress and can lead to wrong behavior.
 

Sees

Dragonslayer
It makes some sense...still like my theory though, if only because I love irony :D




Those verses are mistranslated and misinterpreted. The ancients didn't have any concept of sexual orientation as we do. To sum it up, they had no concept of "sexual orientation". Their ideas about sex were wrapped up in social mores and expectations to marry and have children. So the ancients didn't care if you were attracted to your same gender. In many cultures, it was fine for a married man to get it on with another male (in the case of Greco-Roman culture, it was fine for a citizen to have sex with a passive slave or adolescent).

So, with that in mind, those verses are probably referring to Pagan practices such as temple prostitution, pederasty and other Pagan practices. You have to keep in mind the context of such rules. The Jews were trying so hard to carve out a different identity from the surrounding cultures (because they really did have a different identity in the first place - it developed later) that they proscribed many practices that the non-Abrahamics were in involved in. So it was more of an anti-Pagan thing than anything to do with sex, probably.
 

nazz

Doubting Thomas
Pedophiles or anyone else shouldn't feel guilt or shame over their attractions. That's counter-productive and unhealthy. We all should accept ourselves as we are. For those with desires that aren't legal to act on, they need to seek non-judgemental support to keep them from offending. But they should accept themselves first. Hating yourself causes lots of stress and can lead to wrong behavior.

But my point was they should refrain from expressing their desires, right? so what you said before about repression is not applicable to everyone, right?
 

Sees

Dragonslayer
That prevalence of homosexuality in the Middle East especially caused it to become a tabboo there.

Only takes one or two guys in charge who dislike/hate to want to squash it.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
It makes some sense...still like my theory though, if only because I love irony :D

:p

Sex itself probably did play a role in it, though. It was common in some cultures to view being the passive partner in homosexual acts as being "unmasculine". They thought that being on the recieving end was inherently womanly and so it was seen as a big insult. Women were seen as inferior and you definitely didn't want to be seen as on the level of a woman.

So there's that consideration, too. If you notice, lesbian acts aren't mentioned at all in the OT laws. Women were mostly seen as property in that culture and since there was no danger of another women knocking a woman up, they didn't care too much, it would seem.
 

Sees

Dragonslayer
Yeah, the second class female is definitely tied to this stuff in witnessing that what we are dealing with is ancient cultural bigotry, not divine decree.

:p

Sex itself probably did play a role in it, though. It was common in some cultures to view being the passive partner in homosexual acts as being "unmasculine". They thought that being on the recieving end was inherently womanly and so it was seen as a big insult. Women were seen as inferior and you definitely didn't want to be seen as on the level of a woman.

So there's that consideration, too. If you notice, lesbian acts aren't mentioned at all in the OT laws. Women were mostly seen as property in that culture and since there was no danger of another women knocking a woman up, they didn't care too much, it would seem.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
But my point was they should refrain from expressing their desires, right? so what you said before about repression is not applicable to everyone, right?

I think you and I are talking about two separate things:

Psychological repression, or simply repression, is the psychological attempt by an individual to repel one's own desires and impulses toward pleasurable instincts by excluding the desire from one's consciousness and holding or subduing it in the unconscious. Repression plays a major role in many mental illnesses, and in the psyche of average people.[1]
Psychological repression - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Sexual repression isn't just when you can't have sex. It's also ignoring the urges, denying them, trying to shove them to the back of your mind, self-hatred over the urges, etc. Pedophiles can still do things like masturbate. However, many religious groups proscribe "feeding" the desires at all. So a gay person would not be allowed to masturbate to their fantasies or anything like that.

Anyway, bringing up pedophilia in a thread about homosexuality makes me suspicious and a bit uncomfortable.
 

nazz

Doubting Thomas
I think you and I are talking about two separate things:

Psychological repression - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Sexual repression isn't just when you can't have sex. It's also ignoring the urges, denying them, trying to shove them to the back of your mind, self-hatred over the urges, etc. Pedophiles can still do things like masturbate. However, many religious groups proscribe "feeding" the desires at all. So a gay person would not be allowed to masturbate to their fantasies or anything like that.

Anyway, bringing up pedophilia in a thread about homosexuality makes me suspicious and a bit uncomfortable.

Sorry about that. I think you know me well enough to know I'm not making a connection between the two. I was just addressing your comment about repression. Now that you've explained it I do agree.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
Sorry about that. I think you know me well enough to know I'm not making a connection between the two. I was just addressing your comment about repression. Now that you've explained it I do agree.

Sure. I just don't want to derail the thread. :p
 
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