Thots after reading the 2 above posts:
The scripture says that it is appointed unto man once to die and after this the judgement, that today is the day of salvation. Jesus said let the wheat grow with the tares (weeds), and in the end the tares or goats or wicked will go to everlasting punishment and the righeous to life eternal. Scripture, as understood by the greatest theologians and everyone I have known in the churh, indicates clearly that we live this life, and are judged for THIS life, no chance of redemption, salvation, forgiveness, beyond the grave. It is a great trick of Satan to lure people into not taking care of their salvation now, thinking they can do it 'later', in the next life or whatnot. It is not the Bible. God wants all to be saved, but He provided the way, and that is by accepting the free gift by faith of Christ's death to pay for our sins and his righteousness given to us in place of our own.
Why would a Christian want to go party? Well, God is not against a good time, He does not want us to fall into sin or addiction and all, but celebrating life and accomplishments and enjoying our friends and a glass of wine, dancing with your wife or girlfriend, enjoying things in this world, (not loving), He is not against. But even at that, why do Christians do wrong, become addicted to things, etc.? Because we still have a sin nature, and will not be completely perfect until we get our new transformed body. We are justified, we are sanctified, but we are also being sanctified, growing in grace daily. We know what happens when we as Christians sin, it brings bad consequences, direcet results from each particular sin, loss of fellowship (not relationship) with God, misery, guilt, inability to produce fruit, grief of the Holy Spirit, and loss of reward in Heaven. And as Paul told the Corinthians, it was why many were sick and had died, and that many would be saved, as its free, but would suffer loss, 'saved yet as by fire', and many will weep and mourn deeply for the treasures and rewards, even positions in the kingdom, (at least the millenial), that they forfeited because of lack of obedience. ..