I agree, and I have my doubts about any claims that anyone has been forced to do so.
No minister can be forced to perform a marriage ceremony, heterosexual or otherwise.
If a non-Catholic couple want to be married in a Catholic church, the minister has no legal obligation to do so.
I myself have performed two legal marriages in Colorado. When same-sex marriage becomes legal here, I will happily perform them, but no one can force me to do so, nor can any one force me to perform any marriage ceremony.
Agreed. I, too, am ordained and have studied multiple religions and spirituality for years, I would perform SSM's but I would never be forced to do so. If I felt the couple, whomever they might be, were not vested in the commitment, I would refuse.