In other words. lets all leave our children in the woods after they are born and let a stray she-Wolf raise them, who knows... maybe they will become mighty rulers one day.
I really don't follow your line of argument here. The fact that I disagree with this practice doesn't mean that I don't think we shouldn't bother to raise children at all.
This thread has a very blunt title as well, it reads: 'circumcision should be banned'.
And I've said many times that I disagree with this, so I don't see why you're attributing the consequences of a ban on circumcision to anything I've said.
My agenda is simple. there is nothing wrong with being diplomatic. I hate many things about other people, but I never express it, not in person, or over the internet, unless I am provoked to do it.
I felt provoked.
The thing that pulled me into this thread is when Tarheeler made the comment that there is nothing bad about circumcision. This just isn't true. Maybe you feel that the good outweighs the bad, but that's still not the same thing.
I guess its just human nature. you can never realize what people sensitivities are unless you try to 'educate' them about their barbarism. when its all said and done, I think that Jewish society, at least in North America has done very well for itself, it may cut of the foreskin of its boys. but for the most part it has bean in the forefront of liberal thinking, human rights, democracy, progressive acceptance of LGBT communities, flourishing academic and scientific contribution for the greater good of the general public.
I think these are enough to make people consider, that maybe they might as well overlook the penis thing.
I do think that many (most?) Jews are good people, and these sorts of things will factor into my judgement of someone as a person. However, when considering whether circumcision itself is positive or negative, I don't think that the character of the people doing it is especially relevant.
I don't think that Jews circumcise their sons to be cruel to them. I think they're following what they think are the best of intentions... but this doesn't stop me from seeing the practice as, on the whole, negative.
Frankly, in the circumcision debate, at least in North America, I think that Jewish society is a secondary consideration. The vast majority of circumcisions here are done for cosmetic reasons, misguided concerns about health, or because people just assume that it's done as a matter of course. Circumcisions for religious or cultural reasons are the exception here, not the norm.
We have different standards. I have never 'voiced my opinion' in such a way that I have told a friend he is raising a son the wrong way, and he should not pass down to him his tradition. in fact I believe completely opposite, I believe passing your heritage and experience is one of the greatest and inspiring things. for a person to grow up with a strong sense of identity and belonging to a distinct community (while at the same time being a productive member of the general public) is a driving force for great productivity.
When did I say a parent shouldn't "pass their heritage and experience" to their children? I'm all for that - give the child everything he needs to know and appreciate his culture, and when he's old enough, let him decide to belong to it or not.
You know. I probably think that baptism is ridiculous too. however I will probably change my mind when a Christian explains it to me, or when he shares with me the cultural and maybe personal importance of it all, for him, or his family. after all its not like they drown the kids.
Baptism is a bit of a closer concern for me, since my wife is Catholic and, according to her church, is obligated to have her children baptized. Since those children will also be my children, I've given the matter quite a bit of thought, and I've come to the realization that I find the idea that my children will be declared "Catholic" as infants to be very disagreable... and rather absurd, IMO. Would we label a baby "communist" or "Republican"? Probably not. At least, I hope not.
I don't see how labelling an infant "Jewish" is any less absurd. Still, I see circumcision as a minor issue, especially when it's done for cultural reasons instead of religious ones... definitely down the list from, say, parents who decide that their children will have a particular career whether they like it or not.