I dont expect children to tell me which language they want to speak or whether they want to be circumcised. Therefore, I expect the parents to choose for them. It is you who is saying parents should choose a child's language but not whether they should be circumcised. I am asking why the hypocrisy?
It's not hipocrisy:
- language is absolutely necessary to function in society. If you do not know the language being used around you, you will not be able to interact with the people around you. It's a matter of clear need. Religion is
not a matter of clear need - whether a person is raised in a religion will not stop him from being a full member of society; neither will the choice of religion, except in extreme cases.
- a child's primary language is not a matter of choice of the parent. If a child hears English, he'll learn English... even without the parents consciously deciding to teach the child English. If the child hears some other language, he'll learn that. If a set of parents, for some bizarre reason, decide to keep their child from hearing any language at all, the child will invent his own language.
Second languages may be a matter of parental choice, but parents can't actually choose to stop a child from learning a language that he's surrounded with. It's out of their control.
I have explained several times that Muslim and Jewish children learn their language and dvelop a sense of ethics thru stories in their religious texts, the Quran and Jewish Bible, in which their heroes are circumcised. This is how our children learn about what is good and bad, right and wrong, religious holidays and customs, as well as their language etc.
It's not like a person can't learn Hebrew if he has a foreskin. If you want to teach your kids language, culture, ethics and religion all in one setting, that's your choice, but don't pretend that it has to be done this way.
A person can learn the Hebrew language in ways that don't involve Jewish religion. A person can be circumcised and never learn to speak a word of Hebrew. All of these things are separate issues and each can be looked at on its own merits.