How can believers and atheists find common ground to be able to say.
You know, I see you as a human being, no matter if you believe in a religion or not.
I want to know you as a person, but if you believe or not, that is your private choice.
I can love you for just being you.
It's part of our built in nature to love one another.
The Bible terms it, "natural affection"... which is lacking greatly today, because of the spirit of the world - its influence, which is in opposition to man's true nature (overridden of course, like a virus that has corrupted a file on your computer).
2 Timothy 3:3; Ephesians 2:2
Hence the Bible commands that we have love - not the kind of 'love' that many consider love, but agape.
Matthew 22:39
This kind of love, is as you described... provided...
I take that last statement, not to mean, "I can love you for being an arrogant, self-conceited, selfish, hateful, violent, destructive human", but rather, "I can love you for being human".