All porn is essentially fantasy. Provided that people, from a young age, are given frank talks about the expectations of sexual relationships vs the fantasy provided by pornography, then the should be fine. The way it looks to me, porn is merely a symptom. But the actual root cause is prudishness and failing to teach kids what sexuality truly looks like. Instead of banning porn and making it harder for workers to advocate for worker rights in the appropriate channels, I say, teach kids about sex. In depth, frankly and freely. A much more productive solution imo.
I mean no one reads the Odyssey and thinks to themselves, "hmm,I guess as a man I should chastise my wife for being faithful for over 20 years and slaughter the suitors pining for her."
Because we know it's fantasy from the get-go, even though that was the norm for Homer's time. Presumably.
Teach people to discern fiction from reality and unless they have mental health issues associated with not being able to distinguish the two or have addictive personalities, then they should be fine.