I'm very inclined economically with conservatives. I like making money and holding on to it! So does my family. I'm not ashamed to admit it, either.
However, I value social and environmental issues more than I do economic issues. This includes gender and orientation equality, gun control, environment protection and global warming. GOP doesn't seem to care much on these issues.
I think you're illustrating the exact problem with the Democrats right here. Too many of them are just like you describe - a fiscal conservative (who likes making money) yet also a social liberal. (There are many Republicans who fit the same profile.) But you can't put the cart before the horse. You have to support better wages, working conditions, and living standards for the working classes - or you might as well forget about getting support on any of the other issues you mentioned.
If the Democrats focused solely on economic issues, they would have been a shoo-in for all these elections. But no, too many of them love making money, while alienating the working classes and then wondering why they can't get support on their pet social issues. The people need higher wages, more affordable housing, affordable healthcare, price controls - whatever it takes to turn this country around and back on its feet again. The Democrats ignore all this in favor of their precious social issues - and this is why they lose.
Government is more than just protecting businesses, right?
Ideally, yes. Protecting people is more important than protecting businesses.