Heneni,
I'm trying to understand your position better. It sounds almost as if you are saying that when Christ died on the cross he did not actually secure the salvation of anyone, but rather provided an opportunity for man to exercise faith and then be saved. Sorry if I've got you all mixed up. Let me know...
I will attempt to explain my undertanding of predestination (only roughly) and what it means to be born again.
I think that to understand predestination, we have to understand election.
Whoever god choses he gives birth to.
God chose a nation for himself, and then birthed that nation. He seperated a nation out from the other nations, by birthing them first.
In the same way god chose us in christ, and to seperate us from others he birthed us in christ jesus. Gave us new birth.
New birth means there was an old birth, and another father. When the father of mankind, adam, was created, we were all created IN adam, yet only born later. God created all of mankind when he created adam, we only proceeded out from adam, in the form of birth later. In the same way, if there was going to be a new father, (last adam) we had to be recreated IN him, which happened when we were placed IN christ on the cross in order to be born later as a spiritually alive man.
So IN the first adam, we all died, because we were all in the first adam that died spiritually and therefore all born from his seed would also be spiritually born dead. Then we were adopted and placed IN christ, (our new father) so that we too may be born onto this earth, but spiritually alive. Jesus the bible calls the first born from the dead, and we are born in turn onto this earth. That is what born again means.
Jesus said to his disciples, if you have seen me you have seen the father. Their new father. Jesus is also referred to as the everlasting father in revelation for the same reason. That is why the bible says we are adopted. Adopted from adam.
The bible says that the natural man comes first and then the spiritual. The natural man was created in adam, the spiritual man was created in Jesus. The natural man had to be born onto the earth, and the spiritual man too must do the same.
Do not marvel jesus said...you have to be born AGAIN.
If there are any questions i'd be happy to try and answer as best i can.
Do you believe that forgiveness of sin automatically results in salvation? I believe that one cannot be saved unless you are forgiven, but also you cannot be saved if you dont believe in the one that has forgiven you
What say you?