Hi everyone.
I have a question which I think is perhaps relevant in this thread. If I should go to another thread or move it please tell me tell me which thread I should go to.
I am a Christian, studying Islamic studies at University. There is another boy on my course who says he is Jewish. He is an atheist, but likes to lecture us all on the fact that Judaism can be a race or a religion, rather than what I was brought up on, that it is a race AND a religion. This isn't the problem however. Everything about him is London, British, anti-religious, etc. but when it comes to political debates he brings out the fact that he is Jewish and swings this fact around like a battle-axe. His mum is Jewish so this makes him Jewish, which he reminds us about alot. He comes out with emotional statements like "my whole family died in the holocaust" and "Everyone hates the Jews", and if anyone tries to say otherwise he simply uses the fact that "He is a Jew" and none of us feel like we can respond to him, even though everything about him is exactly the same as us, just his mum happens to be a Jew.
Personally I have found this affects me, as I have been brought up to respect everyone regardless of who or what they are, and even in the case of Judaism, as I am a Christian, I am close to Jews religiously. However, when my friend says what he says, it makes me feel like I am not allowed to talk about Jews, or can't say anything about them in a political or religious debate and I think the others in my class feel the same way. As Europeans, all our families suffered during the second world war, not just his, but he makes it seem as if his family were the worst done to and ours all turned their backs on his.
Does anyone have any recommendations about how I can approach him as a Jew who is not religious? Or can anyone give me any advice , perhaps if you yourself are a Jew on how I should deal with this, and how you feel?
Thanks very much, and this is my first post here so sorry if anything is wrong or not forum-like discussion.