Yeah, I found myself in the situation before. Although my wife is not as bad as others I've known. Also I've made sure to show her that it's not complicated simply to remove various insects without squashing them.
However we did come to an agreement to leave spiders as stealthy pets. Lurking in the corners of our house and preying on uninvited guests.
I wish more people would realize the benefits of having spiders in the house (while being conscious to potential hazardous spiders if there are any in their area).
My philosophy is pretty straightforward. Not to squash anything, unless it's a case of damage to my property. I will tolerate venomous insects and reptiles around me much more than I would certain ants intrusions in my home. For vipers I have my snakes stick, always in my trunk, for oriental hornets I have pepper spray. Those ants however which colonize my cabinets, or threaten the integrity of the wood floor should expect jackboots and chemical attacks. I'ts nothing personal, just politics.
I can see the benefits of keeping spiders, but I can also see the downsides.
Don't spiders get in food sometimes?
Most of the time, when spiders lay eggs, they end up having LOTS of children, keeping spiders in your house will eventually come to a city or maybe an entire civilization of spiders in your house.
It wouldn't be uncommon to run into spiderwebs, either abandoned or still in use...
Plus, I find spiders that grow up to be very creepy. At the farm one night, there was a huge spider on a door to go in one of the barns, and with my arachnophobia, I did decide to take the MUCH longer way around into the barn for the rest of the night
Just the image of feeling them crawl on you at night in your bed, waking up with a tarantula on you or on your pillow, them jumping or falling on you while walking down a hallway, or having to grab something from a closet with a large spider on it (staring right at you!!?) would disturb me.
I don't know about you, but whenever there are spiders in my house, they certainly do not stay in the dark corners of my house, they often times will walk out in the open like they want to play video games with me or something :cover: