The word "oneness" gets tossed around a lot and it means different things to different people, and looks differently to different people. For instance in the Bible it speaks of "One Lord, one faith, one baptism", but there are many who feel this means all need to conform to that single belief and practice. Oneness to them, unity to them means common belief. A "one world order" would be one in which everyone agreed. That's not Oneness in the way I understand it, nor the way Krishnamurti would.Much appreciate your very good comments. The principle around which all the Baha'i Teachings revolve is the oneness of humanity. So that includes every human being on the planet.
Why would you say not accepting the idea of God made you against them?I was an atheist when I came across the Baha'is and I was friends with them for years and they accepted me even though I was against their religion as I couldn't accept the idea of a God. I was an avowed atheist.
Why would that make you against them? Did you seek to destroy them?As an atheist I didn't want to participate in things like prayer meetings or teaching their religion as I didn't believe in God and I didn't want to help them build the Kingdom of God as I rejected the idea of a God.
Why do you consider this a limitation of atheism that it doesn't have any interest in religious goals? You appear to be creating that division right here of "inside and outside". You have the Baha'i' over here and atheism over there. "Us and them". Right here is division.So as an atheist I had my own limitations on what level I wanted to mix with Baha'is but what I did understand clearly is that they loved me just for being human regardless of the fact that I wasn't interested in joining them as I was always suspicious of religious people's motives.
I think people can be loving regardless of their beliefs. Rather in most cases in spite of their beliefs! That says more about the person, than the belief system.After many years when I saw their motives weren't just to grab me and convert me and their love was genuine I began wanting to find out how people who believed in a mythical God could be so loving and sincere and it gnawed at me daily their love and kindness.
This sort of thing with religious groups is quite common, and the "testimonies" of those who have been converted through this approach sound identical to yours. I've found there is in fact a motive. You said it yourself a few sentences ago, "I didn't want to help them build the Kingdom of God." There it is right there, "Help them build the Kingdom of God". The motive is to "build the Kingdom of God". To bring people in. To make converts to the religion. The eye is to make all the world Baha'i'.Not having a motive was a very hard thing for me to believe existed in today's world. So I read their books, argued and challenged them and even cried that I felt here were such beautiful people yet they believed in such fantasies as a God. What troubled me most was their unconditional acceptance of me. There just had to be an ulterior motive and I was determined to find it.
There are very few who love unconditionally, and it is not something that you can teach someone. Jesus taught this as well, but in my experience I have seen many who "act" as if they are loving unconditionally, while being polluted somewhere in there with their own, or their groups agendas. To love for the sake of Love itself, is to have nothing in mind but God alone. It is the Single Thought. And if what follows is handing someone a religious tract, or an invitation to your church or temple or mosque, then I find that a corruption of this, and a considerable falling short of the mark. It is still sin. It is not pure Love for its own sake.So I was treated just as one of them without discrimination. I found out later that it was Baha'u'llah Who taught them to just love unconditionally for the sake of God nothing else.
I think the idea of it appeals to us because it's what we as humans crave, which is a full release from our isolation from our own self and others. The realization of this is in fact what "salvation" is. It's what true Enlightenment is. That others try to emulate this is good as it gets the mind to think beyond just the self, but since it is not truly Pure, it is invariably tainted with self interests. And our desire for this in ourselves allows us to blind ourselves to that in others who hold that as a standard to follow, assuming they are truly Realized individuals because they "act" according to that.They are not interested in power or dominance quite the opposite so I eventually realised such pure love could only have come from this God and then I fell in love with the idea of accepting everyone, welcoming everyone, condemning no one just being part of one human family.
It reminds me of a friend of mine back in the day when I first became part of a religious community a few decades ago. He told us in the group how he found a motorist stranded on the road and how the "Lord" put it on his heart to go back and help him. So he told us how when he returned he told the man the reason he came to help him is because Jesus taught him the value of helping others and shared with him the story of the Good Samaritan from the Bible. Even then, in my youth wanting to believe in order to find God, it felt "off" to me. Even then I knew this was not genuine love, as it did not come from the wellspring of his own heart. It was "imposed" upon him. It was not sincere love. "I love you because Jesus tells me I should", is not loving truly.
If you are open to other perspectives to help grown and change your own for the good, then I'd say you are doing well. Don't be surprised if you find yourself having less in common with the group that identifies itself by a set of beliefs, such as believing in the Prophet, and the like.Now there is beauty and good in everyone I meet and I see God in all of them here whether they agree with me or not or say nice things or not. Everyone here I learn from.
Again here, I hear this distinction of "us and them", that division, that "violence" as Krishnamurti points out. "We're the new kind on the block" creates this us and them division. You see yourselves as separate. That you are open to learn is admirable, but knowing human nature, and what this goal of finding your own identities entails, those distinctions and divisions will continue to grow, very possibly to the point of animosity towards others who you perceive as not accepting you. Human development applies to groups as well. You are in the process of differentiation, defining who you are as a people.I don't see Baha'is as better, matter of fact we're the new kid on the block so we have a lot to learn from everyone else about so many things.
Coming back to the group I was part of that I mentioned, one other thing that struck me then is that this "unity" that I experienced in their group was not a true Unity, in the sense of Divine Love. It was a combination of shared beliefs and an "us versus them" mentality. We rallied around the flagpole of our distinct beliefs, such as you might see rallying around the common belief and accept of Baha'u'llah as the Prophet of God. You become "united" by this and share a love in community. But I do not see this a truly Divine Love, yet. It is not truly liberated from beliefs.
I see this happening as our consciousness is raised beyond distinctions created by group identifications, or beliefs. That would include those who hold them. Even if the words sound right, is the actual motive Pure? Is it truly love for Love's sake, or because our religion tells us to love?But we share that world vision that we hope one day people will accept their diversity and see it as beauty and not as a cause of conflict and learn to live in peace.