Observation does not mean hitting the marble or electrons with photons. It means the radiation from the marble is hitting my eyes or a detection device.
I am going to try this again.
Remember my scenario of the dark room and the marble. Ok, now forget that.
You are outside on a bright sunny day and you see a marble sitting on the sidewalk.
Ok, so you didn't do anything to cause the photons to hit the marble, that was just the sun, all you did was detect them. This is what you are trying to get at, correct?
Now if you are thinking that there is something analogous to the sun in the double slit experiment, something that is just there that the researchers can detect, you are wrong about this experiment. But that does not matter. If there was something there, some stray photons that bounced off the particle and could be detected, that would still be a physical interaction, and that physical interaction would disrupt the wave function. The physical interaction is what effect the particle, not the detection of that interaction. But there can be no detection without the interaction.
The only way we get the wave pattern at the end of the experiment is if there is no physical interaction until that point.