What a weird definition of rape.
Here is the Code for where I live:
IC 35-42-4-1
Rape
Sec. 1. (a) Except as provided in subsection (b), a person who knowingly or intentionally has sexual intercourse with a member of the opposite sex when:
(1) the other person is compelled by force or imminent threat of force;
(2) the other person is unaware that the sexual intercourse is occurring; or
(3) the other person is so mentally disabled or deficient that consent to sexual intercourse cannot be given;commits rape, a Class B felony.
(b) An offense described in subsection (a) is a Class A felony if:
(1) it is committed by using or threatening the use of deadly force;
(2) it is committed while armed with a deadly weapon;
(3) it results in serious bodily injury to a person other than a defendant; or
(4) the commission of the offense is facilitated by furnishing the victim, without the victim's knowledge, with a drug (as defined in IC 16-42-19-2(1)) or a controlled substance (as defined in IC 35-48-1-9) or knowing that the victim was furnished with the drug or controlled substance without the victim's knowledge.
As added by Acts 1976, P.L.148, SEC.2. Amended by Acts 1977, P.L.340, SEC.36; P.L.320-1983, SEC.23; P.L.16-1984, SEC.19; P.L.297-1989, SEC.1; P.L.31-1998, SEC.3.
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Well, that was pretty brief and expanding on what defines "sexual penetration", but here is the definition from our crimes act. Quite interesting I think, seeing how I'd be committing rape if I force someone else allow me to give them a BJ.
(2) A person commits rape if—
(a) he or she intentionally sexually penetrates another person without that person's consent while being aware that the person is not consenting or might not be consenting; or
(b) after sexual penetration he or she does not withdraw from a person who is not consenting on becoming aware that the person is not consenting or might not be consenting.
S. 38(3) inserted by No. 67/2000 s. 4, substituted by No. 2/2006 s. 6(1).
(3) A person (the offender) also commits rape if he or she compels a person—
s. 38A
(a) to sexually penetrate the offender or another person, irrespective of whether the person being sexually penetrated consents to the act; or
(b) who has sexually penetrated the offender or another person, not to cease sexually penetrating the offender or that other person, irrespective of whether the person who has been sexually penetrated consents to the act.
S. 38(4) inserted by No. 67/2000 s. 4, amended by No. 2/2006 s. 6(2).
(4) For the purposes of subsection (3), a person compels another person (the victim) to engage in a sexual act if the person compels the victim (by force or otherwise) to engage in that act—
(a) without the victim's consent; and
(b) while being aware that the victim is not consenting or might not be consenting.