Not all religious people are old fashion, and many do have inquiring minds. I look at it this way, God is the creator of the universe, and by studying the world around us can only glorify Him. He didn't give us our curious minds for nothing.
This is a really good site that goes over the basics of evolution. I suggest going over the "Evolution 101" part. Best of luck with your endeavor and don't lose that curiosity of yours. Understanding Evolution
I don't mean that all religious people are old fashion. My church consists of pretty much all older people except for my family, and quite a few of said older people think that way.. I've learned it the hard way by what I've said and the looks/attitudes I get.
That website is pretty good, I stopped reading at the part where coevolution starts, I don't want to take it too fast. But evolution makes more sense (to me) when you think of it as a ton of little changes that add up and cause bigger changes instead of the classic picture everyone thinks of (the line thingy with the animals ending with the human. That picture makes it seem more unbelievable.)