I haven't found wisdom in the Bible or in the words and deeds of the god described therein.
Furthermore, wisdom, by which I mean knowing what to want, intelligence being knowing how to get what you want, doesn't come from a book. It comes from understanding yourself. Learn as much as you can, be contemplative, be upright, learn to love and laugh, be industrious, and be content when your needs are met, and I suspect that you will be happy barring bad luck.
Attachment, conflict, and the like diminish happiness.
The Bible will mean nothing to anyone who attempts to read it without eyes to see or ears to hear. I know that sounds stupid or falls annoyingly short of a satisfactory answer, but it's the truth. If God doesn't give understanding, man has no understanding at all. That's why so many "Christians" have wrested the Scriptures to their own destruction (2 Peter 3:16).
What you describe as wisdom and intelligence I would describe more as common sense. In any case, what I meant by wisdom in that passage is that there are theories like evolution or the Big Bang Theory, which sound wise/intelligent, but are ultimately foolish, because God has given over those who believe in such things to trusting in themselves and their intellectual powers. I believe in many cases it's a direct punishment for pride.
"Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools, and changed the glory of the incorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and four-footed beasts, and creeping things." (Romans 1:22-23)
Someone can be so sure of something and not realize at all that God has blinded them to the truth. Even if I were to say such a thing to people on here, no one would believe me, thinking they're able to think and reason just fine and that I'm crazy for suggesting otherwise.
God does these things, even as He hardened Pharoah's heart in Exodus so that he couldn't "let the people go."
The Bible doesn't seem to be too concerned with the happiness of people. The scripture you cited seems to be antithetical to happiness. It would be for me if I applied it to my life.
Okay, so I think I addressed that in my above point, that there is a different definition of "wisdom" going on here. Perhaps not.
The Bible isn't about providing people with happiness, it's about salvation from sin and being made in the image of God. This process of crucifixion (dying to the world and to self) is naturally painful and full of sorrow, even persecution. Of course, the end result of all of this is happiness, though I'm not sure I like that word because it goes far beyond that. It's spiritual contentment, that peace that passes all understanding. Not that I'm there yet.
No. I just noticed what was going on around me, and how the promises of Christianity were not being kept, and how the Bible story never made sense. I entered Christianity from atheism in my late teens, and agreed to suspend disbelief in order to give God a chance to reveal Himself, and for the theology to eventually solidify into a structure worthy of and indicative of a god.
That didn't happen, so after most of a decade, I moved on. It was like trying on a pair of shoes that didn't fit properly at first, but you walk around in them for awhile and they either feel better or never quite fit properly
"Agreeing to suspend disbelief" is not repenting of sin because God has given you a contrite spirit. The Bible
wouldn't make sense to someone who is operating out of curiosity or "trying on a pair of shoes." It's a spiritual book, not something you can learn or understand under your own power. You need eyes to see and ears to hear.
But thanks for not blaming me. That's what I usually get - things like my faith wasn't good enough.
It's not about our faith. We're saved by grace; faith is a gift from God, therefore it's HIS faith, not ours. Our own faith is
never "good enough."
I looked at your link. All I saw was religious claims like the ones in this thread. That's not truth to me.
Everything on that site is just like the Scriptures; without eyes to see or ears to hear, they are only words on a page.
I studied Christianity with energy and passion for years. What do you think I missed?
Energy and passion don't cut it:
"For He says to Moses: “I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion. So then, it does not depend on man’s desire or effort, but on God’s mercy." (Romans 9:15-16)
Also, I have the answers I need. I did my searching in my twenties as a Christian, and in my thirties as an atheist, and came to my present humanist understanding of how best to live by testing ideas to see which brought desired outcomes and which didn't.
Notice that I don't claim to have the truth, or answers that would help you, or try to bring you into my world. You do all of those things.
Why? I presume that you're content. Plus, I wouldn't want to shake your foundation if you are not a young man like I was when I made the shift out of the faith. I had time to rebuild, and was still intellectually plastic enough to confront life anew. Later in life, this becomes difficult if not impossible, and there is so much less to be gained by making the effort.
You can't claim to have the truth because you
don't have the Truth, that is, the Lord Jesus Christ.
I can only shake my head at humanism. Look how far mankind has come, some will say. Yes, it only took men around 6,000 years to abolish slavery, and even today men still do horrible things like enslave children and even adults in some places. I'd mention the Nazis who very recently exterminated 6 million Jews, but there are more recent and equally reprehensible tragedies going on every day, even today, in countries like those in the Democratic Republic of the Congo.
Mankind has proven time and time again that it is totally corrupt, totally monstrous, and absolutely incapable of doing anything good. For those in western civilization to sit idly by while these atrocities occur and complain about things like oh, I don't know, slow internet, just shows that the western world is absolutely no better,
no better at all, than those raping and pillaging in Africa.
I'm not at all content. But I'm not searching for contentment right now, I'm waiting on the Lord to save me. As I mentioned before, to be crucified with Christ means what it says...you have to die a slow and painful spiritual death.
That is incorrect. This is yet another way I know that I was correct to leave the religion - another false promise. If promises aren't being kept here o earth, why should I believe the promises made about an afterlife?
How do you know you ever sought Him with all your heart? From what you wrote above, it doesn't sound like you ever did. There is also this to consider:
"The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?" (Jeremiah 17:9)