I think that is a good question. And perhaps I've been misunderstanding what
@Ehav4Ever has been saying about Hashem, but his description sounds more as if Hashem's behavior toward humankind is perfunctory. And kind of like I had said previously about being more like a ginormous Artificial Intelligence, but not artificial.
No. More like we (humans) are the Artificial Intelligence and Hashem created us. Hashem is not a human, and like rosends stated our words to describe something beyond what we experience and know on this planet will always fail on some level. Thus, we use words we know and words we know that others will undrestand as metaphors for things that we can't fully quantify.
For example, you used A.I. but you used it in the wrong direction. If we are the A.I. and we create an A.I. that appears to have human like emotions most people would not consider the A.I. to be humn. The A.I. is something else and can never be "human." What it has is due to a human programming it and whatever it can develop on its own is the result of the human programming it. Now when it comes to A.I. we humans interact with it on the level that is a closer to ourselves. I.e. there is A.I. that is made to physically look human and there are attempts to make A.I. that can react to physical stimuls similar to how humans do.
The difference between Hashem (The Source) and us (the A.I.) is WAY bigger and way more vast than the difference between humans and the A.I. we create. Thus, even if you want to apply words like love to Hashem you can't quantify this because you are not in a position to take that love and place it completely in a human framework. You would have to conclude that a Hashem type of love is magnitudes of levels above any kind of love you can ever experience from a human. It would thus not be similar to human love and thus if you were to ever experience it you be overwhelmed. Kind of like how when the Israeli/Jewish people received the ten commands from happen they were overwhelmed. Only Mosheh ben-Amram (Moses) was able to stand in place and take it. Thus, there response was that Mosheh go and talk directly to Hashem and then tell the people what was said.
Thus, this is the middle ground between both points of view.
- Hashem is beyond humanity and can't quantified and limited to human language and understanding. We can only give metaphors in the best of our language.
- Hashem can be defined using our language, for our own purposes of understanding, BUT we have to accept that any approximation we make Hashem in reality is way BEYOND what we can verbalize and experience in the limits of human existance.
To use a metaphor, Hashem is the Source, the Creator, and the Programmer we humans are the A.I. Thus, we are the ones that can appear to be cold and perfunctory because we are a work in progress and we have a far distance from our creator. Yet, we have been given tools to help with this interaction between our A.I. and our Source. Torah for Jews, 7 mitzvoth for non-Jews, prayer, development, etc.