No, it is definitely people that feel and think that they are the opposite sex. And they could be right.
I think your definition is overly narrow, but I'm fine to stick with that for now.
One could actually have female body parts and a male brain and vice versa.
I think the science on "male" or "female" brains is mostly still unsettled, but again, I think we can leave that aside for now.
Dictionary definitions always are lacking. And this is a complex subject. I will defer to our members that are trans to fill in the details. I will not answer for them since I have to admit that I cannot understand the condition as well as they can.
Again, the terms "gender" and "gender identity" have made their way into laws and policies that impact us all. Thanks to the transactivists, this is no longer just a personal experience.
And now, can you answer the question that I asked you twice, actually three times now. I never dodged your questions and you dodged mine twice so far.
And again, I'm NOT dodging your questions. Correct me if I'm wrong but I think you've now asked me two questions:
Sex and gender are not the same thing. You have debated this enough to be aware of the science that supports transgenderism. How do you deal with the science?
I appreciate that we're able to have a civil conversation on this highly charged topic. That said - and again I'm not trying to dodge you, I'm seeking clarification - what science?
I agree that "gender dysphoria" (GD), is a serious mental health condition. Is that the science you're referring to? If you're referring to the idea that their are biologically "male" brains and "female" brains, I do not think that question is settled science yet. Are you referring to the idea that "gender affirming care" is based on science? (If so, the evidence is mounting that it is based on pseudo-science, see the Cass report and the WPATH files.)
I'm going to assume that when you ask about "the science", you're referring to GD. Correct me if I misunderstood. As far as GD goes, the best evidence is that most kids with GD grow out of it naturally, without medical interventions, as they go through puberty. And further, that most kids with GD end up being gay and having other comorbidities. I think talk therapy is appropriate for kids with GD. I do not think there is any high quality evidence that GAC drugs or surgeries are effective in battling GD, and they are known to be dangerous and irreversible.
Now how does this "impact women's safety"? I have as yet to see it be a problem for such.
There are bad men who have been taking advantage of poorly worded "self identification laws" and "gender identity laws". These men are gaming the system to be put into women's prisons as opposed to men's prisons. They are gaining access to women's safe spaces such as shelters, hospital wards, and locker rooms.
The fact that you haven't seen this doesn't carry much water. Are you aware of all the events in the world?
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I hope I have addressed your questions. If I have not, it's not because I'm dodging. I will be happy to answer again.
But that still leaves us with the question of defining "gender" and "gender identity"... And to be clear, I think the reason that no one on this thread has done a good job with a definition is because there simply isn't one. They are slippery terms promoted by activists.