Spirit of Light
Be who ever you want
Those things you mention here are seen as lack of morality, lack of self control, a sin (some of them, not all of them is sin)Once again theists display a flaw in their rules. Their failure to point out the dangers of doing things they claimed are wrong opens them to ridicule.
Such as.
Masturbation
Sex outside marriage
Gay sex
Rules on menstruation
Not believing
And more.
But guidelines to a good morally life say that the more self control, the fewer attachments to sex, masturbation, and so on, the better life we will live, and closercto the standard of God we become.
Non of the typical human activitues are important or needed for a good religious person