Regarding the OP, I think Homer Simpson best summed up the modern Christian view of God:
"God loves you! God's going to killllll you!"
If traditional Hell is real, how does the threat of endlessly torturing us convince us that God loves us and that we should love Him with all our heart, soul, mind and strength?
Of course God won't tolerate such things in His kingdom. That's what the Lake of Fire is for--or a more proper Greek tranliteration would be "Haven or Harbor of Divine Purification."
Do not throw out one set of Scriptures in favor of another. Rather, seek to harmonize them…For man shall live by
every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.
Out of the same Bible...
"Like water spilled on the ground, which cannot be recovered, so we must die. But God does not take away life; instead, He devises ways so that a banished person may not remain estranged from him” (2 Samuel 14:14).
“For men are not cast off by the Lord forever. Though He brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is His unfailing love. For He does not willingly bring affliction or grief to the children of men. (Lam 3:31-33)
God will not tolerate sin. The Bible definately speaks of punishments and rewards in the afterlife for the decisions we make in this life.
But if traditional hell is true, when and how will “all nations” praise Him, come to Him, serve Him, be blessed in Him and bow to Him? (Psalm 45:17, Ps. 86:9, Isaiah 62:11, Daniel 7:14 Ps 66:1, Ps 72:11, Ps 102:15, Jer. 3:17, Ps 72:17, Isa. 2:2, Isa. 11:10, Isa. 52:10, Rev. 5:13 etc.)