In order for God to be a Male, there would either have to be a Female Goddess counterpart (oh no, I blasphemed) or He could have a Male body with a thingy.
I did not say God is male, I just quoted Jesus' who called him Father and taught us to do the same. We see things in term of male-female as we were created thus. God may be our father in the sense that he created Adam and Eve and we came from them, making God our Father in that sense. The Bible refers to God as our Father in Heaven and is above everything and that is good enough for me. The Bible also makes references to the idea that although equal, a wife's role is submissiveness to the husband as the husband is submissive to God:
I Cor.
3But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
7For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man.
8For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man. 9Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.
Eph. 5
21Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
Col 3
17And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.
18Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. 19Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.