You see, that's exactly what God doesn't want us to do.
We disagree then.
We are human beings, not animals. We are on a higher plane than animals. Animals only follow their instinct. They don't have the ability to raise themselves to a higher, holy level.
Well, humans are animals, to begin. Yes, they don't merely follow their instincs. They have the ability to rationalize certain things. For example, if a piece of paper tells you eating shrimps is against God's will, then that certainly is misleading. Too ridiculous to be from the creator.
God wants us to become angelic (not literally, of course) by abstaining from our nature (in some, but not all, areas).
God wants angels to be angelic, and humans to be human. I don't have any need to be so incoherent with the reality I see. It's just perfectly reasonable that if God wanted only angelic beings, he would have created angels. Humans have their own way and nature. What we have to do is abstaining from harming others and from evil, but that which is innocuous can't be evil.
For example, if one eats a hamberger sandwich, with lettuce, tomatoes, onions, whatever, he can pretty much fulfill his appetite. But does he need 5 burgers on one piece of bread? Does he need to open his mouth so wide that he hurts his jaws? Human beings are supposed to be dignified people.
It's not about overusing or exaggerating to a point where it harms, because that exceeds the natural urge. When we need no more food, we lose hunger, and eating becomes gluttony. This is precisely the point - we're made in a way that having sex is never 'overusing'. If you don't know, sperm regenerates, and so 'wasting your seed' is a unrealistic. Human sexuality is complex and useable for many things beyond reproduction. We know better now than those lawmakers about human nature and consequently can do better inferring God's will.
The animals can do whatever they want; they can copulate whenever their instinct tells them to. That's part of the way God made them. But they don't have the ability to earn eternal reward, because they don't really have free will.
I'm not so certain that no animal has a soul, and therefore, that they can't enjoy the afterlife. We're on a different level, yes, but everything seems to play a part in God's creation and we can't pretend to know better than God.
If we were no different from animals, then we should really have sex with anyone we see on the street who attracts us. Are they females with whom to copulate with, or women who have dignity?
You seem to think a person has dignity when they are repressed. It's not about going around having sex with everybody, but in a situation when there is attraction and love, I don't see why not. That seems to be how we work.
What God expects from us is to transcend the instinct world and prove that we're different from animals and when we DON'T give in to our instincts and rather obey the will of God, that's when God says, "Well done, my son. Here is your gift."
God making some people homosexual and some people very sexually active does not make me think He wants them to be frustrated. It makes me think He made us like that, and as long as we don't cause harm, I need something else to think otherwise.
God is not capricious or malicious. If he made us able to be hungry, it's because he wants us to eat, because that is our nature. He doesn't want us to 'transcend' food and neglect the necessities of our human bodies. Extend this principle.
Yes, God allows us to have sex. But its gotta be in a way that's different from animals. Being dignified is finding a partner who you are willing to consecrate to yourself, thereby making her forbidden to any other man, and that's true love. When you love your partner not mainly because of the pleasure she gives you, but because of the person that she is. Her body is not her essence; it's her personality and her soul, which lives on.
Very poetic and beautiful. Yes, animals don't love as far as I know like humans do. That should be enough. That does not mean we have to frustrate ourselves beyond the reasonable. Just like we don't have to starve.