technomage
Finding my own way
I smack my wife on a regular basis. She does me as well. :hugkiss:If a man beat me, I'd knock him out. If he lightly beat me, I'd lightly knock him out.
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I smack my wife on a regular basis. She does me as well. :hugkiss:If a man beat me, I'd knock him out. If he lightly beat me, I'd lightly knock him out.
Well if it's consensual then that's just plain sexy.I smack my wife on a regular basis. She does me as well. :hugkiss:
I smack my wife on a regular basis. She does me as well. :hugkiss:
Nope. I behave myself so she doesn't have to.Feeling feisty smacks or be good smacks?
I generally strive to refrain from judging other cultures in an ethnocentric manner ... but yeah. The aspects of "power over" within Christianity are, to me, highly objectionable. The explicit allowance for violence, even violence within controlled limits, is completely unacceptable.Well if it's consensual then that's just plain sexy.
If it's not, it's domestic violence. That whole Qur'anic verse about wife beating is extremely sexist.
hello guys! I have joined such type of religious community for the first time, and I'm curious about knowing answer for the question "have you ever found any bug in Islam?" if yes, please tell me. I was sort of polytheist before, but now i'm just a Muslim after knowing strong arguments of Muslim scholars.
Edited later: i mean is there any Islamic teaching against humanity? against science? against moral values? any mistake you ever found in Quran?
Yes, but to be fair Quran had a far greater effect on the world than shekspier's. Particularly in the first few centuries it transformed the wild arab tribes to the most advanced civilization in their own time.
if someone driving a car hits an old man walking on side of road, will you blame traffic police department? or will you blame the man driving the car?
same case is here, Allah has prohibited killing of people, if some Muslim killed another Muslim, you can't blame Islam.
To be perfectly honest, Penumbra, when I first began researching Islam 13 years ago what began to become obvious is that it had serious problems with sexuality. Repression was the answer to sexuality, unless you were dutifully under your husband... whenever he felt like it...Well if it's consensual then that's just plain sexy.
If it's not, it's domestic violence. That whole Qur'anic verse about wife beating is extremely sexist.
I do not know if you would consider it to be a "bug" or not, but there is this.
My wife considered converting. She was studying with some friends, but decided against converting upon discovering that our marriage would be suspended. (Surah 60:10)
By "bug", do you mean some sort of flaw, imperfection or questionable part?
I take it that literally at least "Islam" means "perfection", so I suppose we should take some care in defining what we are talking about.
If you mean to know whether the Islamic Faith as it actually exists far as human beings that have not converted can perceive it has anything worth of criticism, then I must say that sure, it has quite a few troublesome characteristics.
Chief among them, the insistence on relying on the text of the Quran above all else, creating perhaps irresolvible impasses when there is no clear consensus on how to properly interpret it.
Related matters are the insistence on seeing atheism as wrong (it quite simply is not) and even "the highest sin"; the reliance on central authorities even when it is not a particularly practical or constructive arrangement; and the lack of adequate means of dealing with particularly unwise interpretations of the doctrine.
Or, as I should probably say since that is what I mean, it is simply not very dharmic, either in origin or in practice.
Of course, a blanket statement is by definition unfair. I do not mean that Islam is no good. Even leaving aside the grammatical nonsense of such a statement, it is still clearly true that it is constructive for many, many people. I just don't see evidence that it is perfect or destined to become such.
How do you decide that atheism isn't wrong ?
Every country has its own rules and in order to avoid any penalties,then we should believe those rules and follow them.
For example God says committing an adultery is an awful thing and who did it will be punished, now atheists may say such law is silly and say i am free to do sex with any woman on earth even some found it acceptable that brothers and sisters can do it if not harming anyone and that since they love each others to the degree of sexual relationship then they can do it.
God can't be seen but disbelieving and rejecting his rules and orders is what supposed to be punishable.
But i wonder that it seems that you are proud that your wife preferred you than the creator of the universe,if me,i'll love what ever she loves,only because she is that good woman for me.
I can't help but wonder how accurate such a perception is.
It is not exactly easy to tell for certain how much of an impact the Quran made, and how much of it was positive. It certainly brought a lot of a sense of unity of purpose, yet there is strong evidence that this was not necessarily a good thing or a well-realized, fully healthy change.
From my admitedly outsider's perspective, it seems that Muslims spend a remarkably large amount of their religious efforts dealing with what can only be called mistakes, many of them undeniably caused by their own insistence on valuing scripture and tradition so much.
While I understand that it is reckless to say what people that I barely understand should do, it is still very difficult to doubt that a more relaxed approach to religion and tradition would greatly benefit Muslims in general.
Nor do I think it is out of my place to have or state my opinions on the matter, either. A doctrine which states that I was created by a God which they understand better than I do is being quite bold. It should be prepared to deal with some questioning of my own, if for no other reason because surrendering to God's will is supposed to be a non-trivial matter.
As things are now, it is patently clear that Muslims have as much trouble with their own faith as they have a sense of union arising from it. I personally have no doubt that at some point they will need to embrace the virtues of questioning and challenging central authority and tradition to some degree.
Out of the various religions I researched, Islam was the one that I found the least value or truth in.
With other religions I generally came away with some interesting points, but with Islam I found virtually nothing that was both unique and profound. The Qu'ran is the most sadistic of religious texts that I've read, and with the least philosophical complexity in it, and I have a very big set of ethical differences from the majority of Muslims that I've discussed anything with at length.
So I view Islam as a very much human-created religion, and one of the least valuable or interesting ones.
Believing an ant can recognize a human and his army is silly.
Interesting, how is it relevant?It is silly for you only because you don't know how it works.
See how dogs are amazing
Whale poop is often analyzed by scientists to monitor the health of whales, as it often contains important information about their diet. But there’s one problem: the poop sinks within half an hour of leaving the whale, meaning that scientists need to get their hands on it as soon as possible.
For this reason, one group has started training dogs to detect the poop. The dogs can trace its scent from a distance of more than one mile (1.6 km), and lead scientists to the smelly treasure. When the dog has detected the whale waste, he points out the location to the boat captain by either leaning left or right, or twitching his left or right ear.
Reference: 10 Unexpected Things That Dogs Can Smell - Listverse
People in the 7th century should be more surprised to know that Solomon can understand the ant's language and how come that such tiny insect can speak.
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One Ant Defeats Atheism. My God Delusion Part 1 - YouTube
The verse says
O you who have believed, when the believing women come to you as emigrants, examine them. Allah is most knowing as to their faith. And if you know them to be believers, then do not return them to the disbelievers; they are not lawful [wives] for them, nor are they lawful [husbands] for them. But give the disbelievers what they have spent. And there is no blame upon you if you marry them when you have given them their due compensation. And hold not to marriage bonds with disbelieving women, but ask for what you have spent and let them ask for what they have spent. That is the judgement of Allah ; He judges between you. And Allah is Knowing and Wise. (60:10)
As you see, it is a conditional state that the women are emigrants and of course if they will be returned back to the disbelievers then in that time of ignorance they will be killed.
So it is God's wisdom that those women are no more allowed to be returned for the disbelievers and should be protected while in the Muslim lands.
But i wonder that it seems that you are proud that your wife preferred you than the creator of the universe,if me,i'll love what ever she loves,only because she is that good woman for me.