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Homosexuality and religion

I.S.L.A.M617

Illuminatus
If you were raped by a man in prison, would that make you gay, since you'd obviously had sex with a man?

I still refuse to call any male who WILLINGLY performs any kind of sexual act on another male a heterosexual. I also think any man who rapes another man in prison is gay. A duck is a duck, you can't say "I'm not gay, I just have sex with men"...

The victim has no choice, but the person that rapes them is definitely gay
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
Rape isn't a choice for the victim. That question is irrelevant.
Nope. If the definition of gay is "having sex with men," then the victim of rape has fulfilled that definition, and is, therefore, gay. The definition as thus provided makes no provision for intent -- only sexual contact.

Sorry. I didn't invent the poorly thought-out definition.
 

I.S.L.A.M617

Illuminatus
Ahhh you cannot even distinguish between homosexuality and pedophilia either !!. How can you say that ?...

You must be dense... How many times do I have to explain my position to you? It IS in fact possible to be two things. You can be gay AND a pedophile, as any man who rapes a boy is. If someone is Chinese and Japanese are you gonna badger them for hours saying "which one are you"?:facepalm:
 

I.S.L.A.M617

Illuminatus
Rapists are mentally ill. Perhaps they can't help help their compulsion, which means that they're not willful about the act, but compelled.

So now it's not a rapist's fault that they're a rapist? You'd defend rape in general in order to say a gay rapist isn't gay?
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
Gay has to do with sexual orientation -- not act. Some men who have sex with men are not oriented to find men sexually attractive. That's a fact. Therefore, those men are not gay, even though they have sex with men. The impulse isn't sexual, even though the resultant act is. The impulse is violence and control.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
So now it's not a rapist's fault that they're a rapist? You'd defend rape in general in order to say a gay rapist isn't gay?
No dumber than your definition, I'd say, and quite effective at causing you to think about how dumb such definitions are.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
I think anyone who thinks someone who has sex with someone else of the same sex is gay, is gay.
 

I.S.L.A.M617

Illuminatus
Gay has to do with sexual orientation -- not act. Some men who have sex with men are not oriented to find men sexually attractive. That's a fact. Therefore, those men are not gay, even though they have sex with men. The impulse isn't sexual, even though the resultant act is. The impulse is violence and control.

Whatever the impulse, if you feel it towards someone of the same sex, I would consider you gay, in the same way I would still consider a transgender male who feels like a woman to be a man.
 

Kerr

Well-Known Member
Yes, they are in fact gay AND straight; that's what bisexual means...
Technically thats not what it means, since being gay implies you arent attracted by the opposite sex and straight implies you arent attracted by the same sex :p. To be frank I am not sure what this discussion is about other then semantics. I do believe homosexuality is about attraction and not action, though.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
Whatever the impulse, if you feel it towards someone of the same sex, I would consider you gay, in the same way I would still consider a transgender male who feels like a woman to be a man.
What you would consider isn't the issue. Identities and definitions of others aren't set by you. They're set by the other in question. Those identities and definitions are societally-agreed upon, not individually discerned. In other words, it makes not bit of difference how you identify someone. It matters how that someone identifies her or himself, based upon societally-agreed norms.

Your act of identification is called...


Bigotry.
 
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