But they will tell you they did obey their 'holy' books. So that doesn't work. It's not about obeying 'holy' books, because there is too much contradiction and violence in those 'holy' books. What they need to use is common sense. Did you really need some 'holy' book or the writings of Bahai to realise its not smart to beat your wife. In many cases these people ARE getting their violence from the holy books.If they obeyed what was in their Holy Books we would have had peace long ago.
Of course, you and I know that it's wrong, but my point is that they don't. So we need a new strategy. This one doesn't work.