inherent Goodness, no of course not i said Goodness is in man just twisted, we know what is right but we either makes excuses for/or explain away our wrongs, we justify gossip, hate, lying etc, so no i do thing we have a good side but we have a bad side as well, one that we have to own up to, to the one that can save us from ourselves.
I agree that we are capable of good. And I understand that even an axe murderer is capable of enjoying time with his children at a family picnic. Therefore, I recognize that there are always blatant as well as little nuances of self-preservation in our psyches in a heck of a lot of human interactions.
But here's the thing, tarasan.......glossing over these inherent goodness in people while magnifying the egoistc grasping is warped in it's
philosophy.....not the
people like you and me. It's why dismissing the selfless actions, the love, the care, the compassion, the wisdom that had existed throughout a person's life and instead focusing on that "black mark" that you continue to insist on being so incredibly important - I find that to be an incredibly depressing and ultimately degrading view of humans.
There is an expectation that humans will do evil. That there is no capability of "saving" us from ourselves, and that no matter what good we do, we fall short of the glory of God. It's insisting that goodness in humans is inconsequential, and that only the very personal, intimate, and
malleable beliefs matter.
It was this doctrine that ultimately sealed the deal for me to leave the Christian community and faith I had held dear for 22 years. I had been raised in a Catholic home, and then because I freaked out in college when I was taught that Catholics aren't "real" Christians and that I needed to repent and to be "saved", I can tell you that after that was when I became
more neurotic. I tore my hair out, and cried for hours on end praying to God every night begging for forgiveness because when I felt compassion for others.....I worried that I had failed in His eyes. When I spouted off a harsh judgemental attitude, I felt more sure about my salvation but upon reflection I saw I was nowhere near being the Good Samaritan I had read about.
Now, you know a little more about me and why I completely reject this line of thinking. Letting the eternal damnation doctrine go was the biggest lift off my shoulders, and I was able to see others with more forgiveness as well as having the ability to forgive
myself after regretting hurting others. At a certain point, we have to move on from our pasts, no matter how immature, selfish, or hurtful we may have been. The doctrine of eternal damnation disallows the truth of change of heart, of wisdom learned from our past mistakes, and of forgiveness.
and no im not asking your husband cause you live in america..... what a mean thing to ask a 21 year man still wide eyed and naive about life.....
Yes. You're young. I have four kids between the ages of 11 and 17. At a certain point, it's likely you and they will see that the world is not so clearly dualistic as all of you think, and that there are tons of grey areas to consider in many situations......
especially when it comes to theology and cosmological arguments.
By seeing somebody feel a bit uncomfortable? No shame, no. I don't mean to hurt, but I do mean to call out moral inconsistency and hypocrisy when I see it. And I know who I am and feel extremely comfortable in my own skin, so there's no shame in being simply who I am. :rainbow1: