This is the quintessence of the ignorance of modern "Hindus". They think that if we keep extending our hand as a good gesture, they will surely turn around and reciprocate.
History has shown time and again that the exact opposite is true when it comes to the Abrahamics.
I recommend everyone to read Being Different (
Home | Being Different the Book), also by Rajiv Malhotra. It talks about the non-negotiable differences between the Dharmic traditions and the Abrahamic ones.
If Hindus were to put a statue of jesus in a Hindu temple, some Hindus will object but most wouldn't go crazy over it. Yet, not a single Christian church would reciprocate the gesture and put a mUrtI of Sri Krishna there! To think otherwise is disingenuous.
Gandhi sang a song about Allah and Ishwar being the 'same' - yet, it was only he, and Hindus, who sang that song. Do you think any Muslim sang that song? They CANNOT sing that song because of their religion! Or even considered it as 'true'? Why should this gesture be only one way? It is setting up Hindus to get destroyed. Christians CANNOT accept that there are "other" ways to God (heaven etc.) except through belief in jesus according to the Nicene Creed. If 'liberal' Christians do claim such a thing, they are not really Christian - they are not following their religion devoutly! That is why no church would accede to a demand that jesus is NOT the only way. It is fundamental to their religion - their belief! It is not an erratic person here or there or a group of people who are "bad". Those seemingly "bad" Christians/Muslims are actually "good" Christians/Muslims since they are following their religion to the T.
The Taliban think they are the foremost practitioners of Islam. They think even other brands of Islam (Shia, Ismaili, Ahmadiyya etc.) are heretical and want to eliminate them. They are "good" Muslims since they follow the diktats of their religion very closely (or at least their interpretation of it). The so-called "moderate" Muslim is an aberration - a bad example of a Muslim. Likewise, Christians who claim that there are "other paths" or that one does NOT have to be a Christian to attain heaven, are not "good" Christians.
In other words, a "good" Christian/Muslim is actually a "bad" person. A "bad" Christian/Muslim is actually a good person! Until people realize this, we are going to go around in circles claiming that only a "few" people of those religions are "bad" and that the 'religion' itself is not! Nothing could be further than the truth! Remember, ideology is everything! The same Germans who in the last few centuries were at the forefront of Western civilization (science, mathematics, philosophy, music) switched like a bulb into an efficient killing machine during WWII. Why? The ideology of Nazism - the resultant brainwashing from the Nazis caused an entire country to go berserk and cause the deaths of more than 50M people! One could claim that he is a "Nazi" but emulates Hitler's vegetarianism, teetotalism, and oratory. Yet, when we hear the word "Nazism", we associate it with mass murder. Likewise, cherry picking from the Abrahamic tradition and claiming that they are 'peaceful' religions is blatantly false.
The same "Pakistanis" were Hindus about a millenia ago. Look at them now - want to exterminate every Hindu/Buddhist/Jain/Sikh on the planet. Of course, not all Pakistanis are like that; but their overall attitude towards Dharmic traditions is that of extreme antipathy.
We can remain confident and proud of Hinduism/India without having to dilute our differences and say 'we are all the same' (or all religions are the same).
Hindus are terrified of being different due to a severe inferiority complex that has developed over the past millenia due to foreign rule in India.
Vinayaka (are you Eastern Mind btw?) seems to be a rare breed who sees through the muck and mire that is universalism that is associated with Hinduism today. Tradition and rigor gives our sAdhanA shape and context as a bottle gives shape and form when holding liquid.
I agree with someone who said that Yoga became popular in India in recent times due to non-Indians accepting it. It is with an aggrieved heart that I feel that Hinduism's beauty has to be brought to the forefront by non-Indians as well. Since any Indian who talks strongly FOR Hindu Dharma, gets lambasted by fellow "Hindus".
There comes a time when diplomacy simply won't work. Hindus dealing with Abrahamics is very similar to this. They will never reciprocate the respect, affection, or kindness shown by Hindus. Europe remained Christian not because the Pope decided to sit with the Seljuk Turks for Starbucks. They sent an entire army and "God's will" (from Kingdom of Heaven
) to smash the Muslim marauders of Jerusalem.
Gandhi, advising humanity at large to eschew violence said, "An eye for an eye makes the world blind!"
I say, "Two eyes for an eye and a whole jaw for a tooth!"
Thus spake TatTvamAsi.
And, remember, context is everything. Apad dharma is the need of the hour for Hindus. Singing "bhajans" and eating gulab jamun can wait.