sojourner
Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
Correct. A Christian is something one becomes. It's not something one is "made." Becoming is a process that can take a lifetime.Not even then. My mother teaches first grade and gets rambling fundamentalist Christian children. They may say they are Christian, but really they're just programmed by their parents to understand themselves in such a way.
[edit] It has to do with Fowler's stages of spiritual development. Until one reaches the "doubt" stage and chooses non-belief, I don't think one can truly be an atheist. Until that time, one isn't "non-anything." One is exactly what one is -- not what one is not.