*sigh*
Silly Zoogirl.
I don't get why the church is so adversarial towards sex. Honestly, I used to be Christian and was very chaste. Now, I feel like I'm inexperienced and inadequate... I feel like I missed out on various experiences that only come once.
You know, the exploration of one's sexuality is really not a bad thing...
No offense but I do not see how I am being silly at all. As far sex goes, the Church is not adversarial towards sex. However, it does view sex as something that is a very intimate thing between a man and a woman who are married to each other. God created sex just as He created marriage and humankind. He did intend for our sexual faculties to be misused through things like masturbation, adultery, fornication, and homosexual sex. It goes against the natural law. That said, I do not want to debate about this. I just wanted to post my views on it.
As for the exploration of one's sexuality, it is fine so long as one does not give in to temptation and engage in sinful activities.
You do realize as a roman catholic,
that even AFTER you are married,
you may not use birth control,
and you may not even participate in oral sex
unless it is foreplay leading to intercourse.
Oh and no masterbating.
(though if you were raised RC,
they've probably scared that basic human Self connection/pleasure
out of you already.)
Any of these things make you mortal sin hellbound.
Don't you just love a bunch of old men
dictating your sex life,
and making you confess to them
all kinds of personal stuff
that's absolutely no one's buisness but your own?
AS IF, you really need them to "stay out of hell",
or commune with god.
So, Good luck with all of that.
If it fits you, who am I to say you shouldn't wear it.
Though I feel I should at least mention,
10 years of such restrictive apparal (in my adult years)
almost killed me.
Of course I realize this and I have absolutely no problem with it. I am actually a convert to the Catholic Church. I was raised Southern Baptist and then back in 2006, I entered into full communion with the Catholic Church on Easter Vigil. It was a glorious and sacred event and one that I truly do cherish. It is just that sometimes I have doubts. I hate having doubts and sometimes I act on those doubts. That is what I was doing lately.
Anyway, I don't wish to debate sexuality here in this thread. I have stated my views only so that you know how I feel.
I am a Christian. Historic and orthodox Christian teaching has always taught that the use of contraception to prevent procreation, masturbation, fornication, adultery, homosexual sex is against God's law. I realize that some of you have a problem with that but it is not something that I will apologize for. I feel no need to apologize for the fact that I believe this is God's law and that everyone should follow it. However, I do not wish to offend you all although I realize that there is the potential for you to be offended. That is not my purpose in posting this though. It is only to state my views.
That said, I respect the beliefs of everyone else, why can't my own beliefs be respected as well? I really don't feel as though they are being respected that much when people post and basically seem like they are trying to get me to not be Catholic by telling how the Catholic Church is so wrong. I know that you may not have explicitly done that but in comes across that way if you know what I mean.
May God bless you,
ZooGirl02