If I may jump in here, I hold up my hands and accept that I don't have your first-hand experience of life in Israel. And I can tell that even if you lived in the Himalayas you absolutely know more about the conflict than I do. I'm just some numpty watching children being carted to the morgue every night on the news and I don't think it makes me a hypocrite to be furious about it.
Even if it were true that people were only focused on Israel (and you'd have to ignore a century of peace movements all over the world to entertain that idea), it's hardly a defence to point at other places and ask us to criticise them.
I agree that in a fair, objective world, it would not be a very useful defense. The problem is that Israel is consistently held to a much higher standard than other countries, but few will admit to that. That is why, from time to time, I try to get people to admit they hold Israel to a higher standard. Few, if any, ever do. Certainly, seeing a child be killed is saddening. But it remains a question to be debated whether Israel's actions in this war, as well as in previous operations, may be considered actual war crimes. That is not a term to be used lightly. People often point to the UN or other human rights groups who have unequivocally announced that Israel is at fault and has, indeed, committed war crimes. However, typically these groups fail entirely or almost entirely to denounce other political entities and even terrorist organizations for acts some may argue are far worse than what Israel does. For example, hop over now to Wikipedia and check out who sits on the Human Rights Council. You may be surprised to discover that these are some of the worst human rights violators in the world. This tells me that the UN is likely not an objective body. So why should I hang my head in shame when it tells me that my country commited war crimes? What reason do I have to believe its objectivity on the matter? Why should I put my faith in the UN's judgment?
We can start having a real discussion regarding the legitimacy of Israel's methods both in war time and in daily life once we can all agree that the UN and many other human rights groups are holding Israel to a far higher standard, in a grossly hypocritical manner, for highly unclear reasons. Yes, I am open to a serious discussion on the topic which will likely lead me to concede many things. But only when concessions are also made on the other side. So far, not a single user here on RF has agreed to make these concessions (since I've joined the site, that is).