If someone is born without a brain or is deformed in some way, I believe that was their fate. Fate is things that happen to us that is beyond our control, things we do not choose with our free will. God did not cause it to happen just because God knew it would happen and wrote it on the Tablet of Fate.
Personally, I don't believe that death is necessarily something to be afraid of. As a medium, I'm well aware that a human spirit's experience in the afterlife is primarily determined by them and can be either positive or negative depending on how they handle death and even what kind of person they were in life. I've been communicating with human spirits for the past fifteen years, and these experiences have shown me that a person's character in this life can carry over into the afterlife and determine their fate. I believe that the spirit realm is an everlasting existence that is not bound by space or time, nor is it limited to heaven or hell. In fact, I don't believe that human spirits are imprisoned in either heaven or hell for all eternity. I don't believe what the Bible says about heaven and hell or what happens to people after they die and enter the spirit realm. I believe that what the Bible teaches about the afterlife is demonstrably false and extremely misleading. On the contrary, I believe that both human spirits and non-human entities can travel between the spirit and physical worlds by passing through a spiritual vortex or a spirit portal (such as mirrors and windows). I also believe that some human spirits can choose to cross over or remain earthbound, whereas others become trapped in the physical world and require the assistance of a psychic medium to cross over.
Based on my knowledge and experiences, I believe that the following factors contribute to why there are earthbound spirits: (1) There are spirits who don’t realize that they are dead because they died unexpectedly and are now confused and don't understand what is happening to them; (2) They are upset and scared about dying unexpectedly and are in denial; (3) They have unfinished business, such as wanting to let their loved ones know that they are okay or feeling obligated to watch over their loved ones; (4) They are angry and are seeking justice or retribution against the person or persons who took their life; and (5) They prefer to be around living people because they miss being alive or because they thrive and "feed on" the negative emotions of the living.
My beliefs about earthbound spirits and the afterlife are founded on my forty three years of experience as a psychic medium, the last fifteen of which I have spent as a practicing medium and as an experienced paranormal investigator. The evidence of paranormal phenomena that I've documented or that was documented by other paranormal investigators that I know and believe to be honest, in my opinion, validates my experiences as a psychic medium.