I don't believe you responded to my question on p. 2, but that's okay. It was mostly rhetorical, and on this topic...
IF the purpose of life is to have a family and a lineage, then the most selfish decision a human being could make would be to deliberately pursue a form of pleasure that directly prevents that from happening.
Thank
God that bisexuality overcomes this issue you are raising.
You CANNOT accept these arguments from a relative viewpoint, which I think is something that a lot of antagonists get hung up on. We don't believe that God is relative. A sin is a sin. A rock is a rock.
And he who is without sin can be the first to pick up a rock...(which relates to my earlier question)
Are you without sin?
It is not immoral in our doctrine to HAVE homosexual feelings, it is immoral to act on them.
To hug a person of the same gender in a loving way is immoral?
Is acting on heterosexual feelings, purely for sake of pleasure, immoral (to you)?
We do not hate homosexual people. We don't hate anyone. But, we do not tolerate. Toleration inherently implies a lack of love.
What does intolerant imply?
Do you truly not think I could find examples of where Unificationism tolerates?
Do you marry someone because you tolerate them?
No, but toleration may be key to lasting marriage.
Do you desire to live with those that you tolerate or those that you love?
Could be both.
Is it possible that some behaviors are simply unacceptable and the responsibility of the individual who exhibits said behavior to control it and stop it?
The sort of behaviors that are generally deemed unacceptable to much of society are those that are perceived as harmful to specific members, or large portions of citizens. How might you explain acts of homosexuality as harmful to society? This is the secular side of the equation. The religious side is unless you are worthy judge (read as without sin) then unacceptable behavior is call for forgiveness, not condemnation; though this does depend on how God / Holy Spirit is said to influence believers.
If we call homosexuality a choice, than it can be determined that an individual is capable of controlling his actions.
Same would be true with heterosexuality.
If it is said to be apparent from birth as a physically traceable defect, then we should consider it an illness.
Again, I'll say same with heterosexuality.
But what I see more frequently, is that it is considered to be neither of these two things consistently, and only whichever provides the strongest argument in the current political or social climate.
For sake of this dialogue, I'd much prefer to stay to the spiritual / religious domain for understanding.
Homosexuality is a barrier to world peace, yes, I just said that. The Middle East will never be at peace with a country that celebrates open homosexuality and allows same sex unions.
Then the Middle East will never be at peace with its own self.
Similarly to how many Americans will never be able to tolerate or respect the way women in the Middle East are treated. Toleration, in truth, does not work. It is by it's very definition suggesting that there is a significant problem that must ignore or accept in order to coexist.
And yet, magically, this is the world we currently live in. U.S. isn't perfect in its treatment of women, and Middle East is dealing with own homosexuality issues. To project these onto the other countries as 'sole reason why we may not get along' would be preposterous in this day and time. But if country in Middle East is sovereign and not (overtly) exercising abuse of its own people, the world body will generally tolerate the existence of the Middle East nation regardless (really) of its treatment of women. Likewise, many Middle Eastern countries recognize U.S. and European nations as co-existing partners of world body, regardless of sexual freedoms blatantly displayed by Western nations.
The Middle East will have to change the way it treats women in order for the world to embrace it harmoniously, we cannot just say that because they are religious that they must be "tolerated". Likewise, homosexuality cannot be permissible in the United States if world peace is a goal, it is necessary that this be changed.
It is not likely this will be changed. If a demonstration of physical harm to specific members or large factions can be shown, consideration will be given to the morality issue you touched upon. Without this, it becomes as possible to put genie back in the bottle, as it would be to suddenly outlaw heterosexuality because 'my religion' is not tolerant of the behaviors that accompany that way of life. What do you think chances of this occurring on world wide level, are?
Homosexuality is defended under the pretext that it is an individuals right to pursue "happiness", but that word has been entirely changed to "a pleasurable lifestyle" in the context of the arguments made.
For many, it is happiness in sense of loving relationship. For some, it is pleasurable lifestyle. Like any sexuality that is promiscuous, it is open to reasonable debate that it could be harmful to society as whole (spread of STD's). But subtract promiscuity from homosexual relations, encourage homosexuals (or bisexuals) to marry and live in nuclear family way of life, and suddenly happiness looks a lot like what it would for anyone convinced that marriage means monogamous relations.
I genuinely enjoy the feeling I get from helping others, it is intoxicating and beautiful.
I can relate to this.
I enjoy denying myself the pleasures of drinking and drug use, which I have seen destroy many lives. I see no purpose in justifying promiscuous sex when it causes so many emotional problems and diseases that can ruin peoples lives. I see no problem discouraging people from engaging in homosexual activities that may even cut their life expectancy in half
As I've said elsewhere, if you were truly religious person seeking to help homosexuals, you would be advocating strongly for same sex marriages. To the point of discouraging the promiscuity in the same way you would with heterosexuals. Or would you say to promiscuous heterosexual coupling, that because they cannot control their urges, they are to renounce their orientation and not engage in such behavior ever again? I would think your answer to this would be a clear no, and yet you would in this case (of homosexuality) not do unto another as you would have done unto you. How, from a spiritual perspective, can you plausibly defend this in a moral way?
if I am wrong and my actions are simply inhibiting homosexuals from freely and fully experiencing life for no reason at all (other than the health risk I noted), I will simply be acting in the way that they have towards heterosexuals and their religious beliefs. For if religion truly serves no purpose but individual peace of mind, then it is reduced to a worldly pleasure - the pursuit of happiness - and thus no different from homosexuality. I have only done to you what you have done to me, and if there is no absolute determination by which that can be said to be wrong, than I have no shame for having done so.
Your inversion of the Golden Rule is between unsettling and laced with hypocrisy. Because some advocates have treated you unjustly or in demeaning way, this is now how you justify holding an intolerant position toward all homosexuals? With spiritual courage, you could apply the Rule in a a way that doesn't perpetuate insanity, and allows brothers and sisters opportunity for loving relationship that you would afford to some, but apparently not all; thus contributing, instead, to manifestation of same-sex relationships that are not to be honored with longevity, and righteously met with hypocrisy laden condemnation.
The cool thing is, your earthly intermediary may actually support your intolerant and unloving position on this matter. While Holy Spirit will simply return to you what you are sharing with brothers and sisters (judgment for non tolerance and unloving devotion).