However, no matter how wealthy, white women were not treated very nicely. Better than local women I guess, but not as well as white men. So gender absolutely lent privilege, for all that I wouldn't generally discuss it in such terms.
I think this is an important point. People are often resistant to using the language of 'privilege', which I suppose is alright as long as they acknowledge the reality of what's under discussion. You highlight here a good example of the intersections of male privilege and white privilege, as I'd refer to it.
I should add that my "model" is really only for America, as that's the only society that I truly know. While I've lived in Europe, I was too young to truly grasp the politics of everything. America is what I know, and where I frequently see this argument being staged.
I once spent a couple layovers in Atlanta Airport - does that count as my having visited the USA?