It's nice that you don't quote further Jdg 19:23-25:
23 And the man, the master of the house,
went out unto them, and said unto them:
'Nay, my brethren, I pray you, do not so
wickedly; seeing that this man is come
into my house, do not this wanton deed.
24 Behold, here is my daughter a virgin,
and his concubine; I will bring them out
now, and humble ye them, and do with
them what seemeth good unto you; but
unto this man do not so wanton a thing.
25 But the men would not hearken to
him; so the man laid hold on his
concubine, and brought her forth unto
them; and they knew her, and abused her
all the night until the morning; and when
the day began to spring, they let her go.
I believe it's clear that in this context with "yada" or "know" is meant to have sex. Of course it's raping someone and even killing the person at the end in this case, but still it means having sexual contact, not just killing.
You didn't answer the EDIT. If you believe this is all just inner work - why -
What is the inner reason for the patriarchal tossing of women to the dogs, - to be raped and murdered?
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There is good and evil. Knowledge. Masculine and feminine principles, opposites. Clean and unclean. Men and women in scripture aren't literal men and women in scripture.
The child( seed of knowledge) grows and grows... Becoming adults and not literal adults. It's how our brains expand in knowledge. Thoughts, desires, emotions, etc.
When one is separated from God, (a widow) without husband (Lord) ... They are in a conscious state of hell, mentally. Destruction of mind leaves one desolate and empty. . Stressed, depressed, etc.
Women aren't literal women, the unclean/evil seeds need destroyed and murdered.
I don't know why the word "rape" was used in English translation. Study the hebrew word. . Likely means to take hold of or seize, grab onto, have control and dominion over someone.