Would you have god kill all the gangs of bad men? Should god turn them into mindless zombies that only do what god wants?
Somewhere there is a jihadist that believes that god should wipe all western civilization off the face of the earth. Would you want god listening to
his opinion? That same jihadist would like the entire world to be subject to Sharia law. Is that the kind of world you would want to live in?
The world does not become a perfect place just because it starts conforming to
your version of perfection, just like it does not become a perfect place (and by our standards, becomes a
less perfect place) if it starts conforming to the jihadists' version of perfection.
The rapes and murders aren't happening because
god wills it. They're happening because god has given
us freedom of choice ... and
we choose to do these things to others, or
we choose to stand by and do nothing as others do these things.
"The world has enough for everybody's need, but not enough for one man's greed."
- Mahatma Gandhi
Let's say your entire family kept only the income which was
absolutely necessary to meet the necessities (no computer, no TV, only the cheapest available transportation, a small house, no vacations) and gave the rest of the money to charity. How many
families could have
their necessities met with that extra money?
You don't believe god exists. If
you feel that the end of suffering in the world is a worthwhile goal, why aren't
you doing everything in
your power to make it happen? (Even if you're still a child, you could tell your parents to give money to charity instead of buying you birthday and christmas presents.)
If you're a kind a compassionate person, why aren't
you doing (on a small scale) everything you think god should be doing worldwide?
The ethnic strife that is tearing apart Africa has its roots in the age-old hatreds between the tribes. But it was deliberately exacerbated by the European powers who colonized those regions. They drew boundaries to ensure that antagonistic tribes would share the same territory, then they supported the weaker tribe as long as the weaker tribe accepted the Europeans being on the top.
The Europeans got to rake in the wealth with minimal effort. The tribe chosen by the Europeans got to freely oppress their more numerous rivals. And the majority developed a burning hatred for their oppressors.
God didn't create the problem. People did.
Even if god stopped everyone from doing these atrocious things, it
would not solve the underlying problem. Look at Eastern Europe. For decades the Soviets kept the ethnic groups from killing each other. As soon as the Soviets left, the ethnic groups started making up for lost time.
My grandmother died of lung cancer, after living for decades with a husband and son who were heavy smokers.
A friend of mine is HIV+. Even though he knew the risks, he still had unprotected sex with dozens of men.
A neighbor is suffering from osteoporosis. He spends all day hunched over his computer keyboard, rather than doing the physical therapy which would alleviate his pain and forestall further deterioration.
His wife is suffering from alzheimers, but he's too enmeshed in denial to get her the proper treatement and social stimulation to slow the progress of the disease.
A friend of mine has Hepatitis C. She wants to have her own biological child, and she's willing to risk passing the disease on to her child in order to achieve that goal.
We don't eat healthy foods; we're sleep deprived; we go to work/school even when we know we have contagious diseases.
God doesn't
need to give us debilitating diseases. We do it all on our own.
If you think god is (or ought to be) micromanaging the universe (and our lives), then reality is unlikely to meet that particular expectation.
Not just science. Human nature. Most of us would rather allow 100 strangers suffer and die on the other side of the world rather than personally inconvenience ourselves.
It can mean many things.
Thirty years ago my grandparents were murdered. From that incident, I learned that forgiveness is not something we do to benefit those who have wronged us. It's something we do so we don't end up chained in the past by hatred and anger.
Twenty years ago I was broke, unemployed and starving. That experience has made me more compassionate towards people who have ended up in similar (or worse) situations ... and particularly more understanding of the desperate choices they may be forced to make.
Before I was born,
a woman was attacked, repeatedly stabbed, raped and left to die. Numerous bystanders were aware of the attack, but none came to her assistance. This story is taught in many psychology classes. Ten years ago I heard a woman screaming in a nearby apartment. I went running outside (in my underwear) to see whether she was in distress. When I couldn't locate the source of the disturbance, I called the police.
My god told me to love others as I love myself; to treat others in the way I would like them to treat me; to feed the hungry, clothe the naked....
My god did something. He told
me to take some responsibility for aleviating the suffering in the world.