Kathryn
It was on fire when I laid down on it.
By the way, here's my thoughts:
I recently took a very large paycut so that I could work 40 hours a week instead of 70. I haven't missed the money one bit because the time with my family, and the time to read and relax is definitely worth it.
So I'm not buying into the idea of working so hard that you sacrifice your quality time with your family or yourself in order to have more material toys. We sold our boat recently in order to build up our savings account. When I was working the killer job, we wouldn't have had to do that - but then we also wouldn't have had time to get out on the boat anyway.
That being said, my husband and I have a financial plan, which includes retirement in the next 15 years, and college for our son. I don't think that either of those goals is evil or unrealistic. Neither are either of them obtainable without us both working full time - and working pretty hard - for the next 10-15 years.
I guess we could sell all we have, live in a shack or a mobile home, scrounge up some sort of disability (Lord knows, my husband could do that - he's worked 30 years in the oilfield!), and get by on food stamps and government assistance, but then we'd be counting on the work of others to support us. That doesn't seem quite right to me. Someone has to pay our way.
So I guess I believe this: If you can cut back on your lifestyle and your material possessions so that you can work less TO SUPPORT YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY, I see no problem with that - none at all! In fact, GOOD FOR YOU (and me!). I would encourage anyone to do that if possible.
However, if cutting back on your work means that someone else is going to have to work harder so that you can work less - hey, that just isn't right.
I recently took a very large paycut so that I could work 40 hours a week instead of 70. I haven't missed the money one bit because the time with my family, and the time to read and relax is definitely worth it.
So I'm not buying into the idea of working so hard that you sacrifice your quality time with your family or yourself in order to have more material toys. We sold our boat recently in order to build up our savings account. When I was working the killer job, we wouldn't have had to do that - but then we also wouldn't have had time to get out on the boat anyway.
That being said, my husband and I have a financial plan, which includes retirement in the next 15 years, and college for our son. I don't think that either of those goals is evil or unrealistic. Neither are either of them obtainable without us both working full time - and working pretty hard - for the next 10-15 years.
I guess we could sell all we have, live in a shack or a mobile home, scrounge up some sort of disability (Lord knows, my husband could do that - he's worked 30 years in the oilfield!), and get by on food stamps and government assistance, but then we'd be counting on the work of others to support us. That doesn't seem quite right to me. Someone has to pay our way.
So I guess I believe this: If you can cut back on your lifestyle and your material possessions so that you can work less TO SUPPORT YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY, I see no problem with that - none at all! In fact, GOOD FOR YOU (and me!). I would encourage anyone to do that if possible.
However, if cutting back on your work means that someone else is going to have to work harder so that you can work less - hey, that just isn't right.