You see what I mean, this is your feeling that the religious person has not been empowered by God, I have no problem with what you are saying but you should recognize that in your mind "the state" has the authority to Kill for whatever it is offended about and you can get the death penalty for simply sharing "state" secrets, so hurting the feelings of the state can have dire consequences
That is because citizens enter into a binding social contract with their government, or The State. Citizens, as such, are required to adhere to the laws of the State, and will be severely punished for doing things that might harm the State and its citizens.
Contrarily, non-Muslims do not have any requirement to acknowledge or adhere to a contract which, to them, may or may not exist with a God who may or may not exist. To expect anyone to even consider such a contract as paramount to the social contract which binds everyone in a community is completely unreasonable. So, Muslims are more than welcome to believe in a contract with God, but there cannot be any kind of requirement for non-Muslims to care about that contract ... as it does not apply to them in any way.
Also, it is extremely important to recognize that, unlike race or native nationality, religion is a choice. It is a system of beliefs that one either does or does not adhere to, follow, or even pay any mind at all to. There is nothing about religious identity that makes a person more enlightened, and it is abhorent to think that one's beliefs put them in a better position with the Allmighty. To me, that is clearly insulting, but you do not seem to have an issue unless Islam is being insulted. Insulting America, Atheism, or someone's race is exactly the same as insulting Islam. It would be illogical and, imho, disgraceful to put religious beliefs on a pedestool to placate violent murderers.