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Sure, if you wanted to join his discipleship, it was a come-on, you need nothing, let's go deal. But I don't take that as the whole meaning behind following him.
I agree. In a recent discussion regarding divine wrath and fear tactics the same point was raised. From my perspective I think it's very important to identify Jesus' audience in each of the episodes in the Gospels. When I read Jesus' teachings, I like to determine who Jesus was speaking to. That solves a lot of conflicts for me. The sermon on the mount is for the crowd, the masses. The teachings for the disciples is different. The teachings for the deniers is different. The teachings for the pharisees is different.
In Judaism, we have a concept of a Tzaddik. It literally means a "righteous" person. However, the title includes ... a lot more than that. One of the features of a Tzaddik is that they are able to tailor their teachings to each individual and address their individual needs at that moment in their lives.
My favorite example, is John 3? I think. The passage about being born of water and spirit? As a necessity to recognize Jesus' true nature and purpose? That was a private audience, and the inquiry began with the word: "Rabbi?" The man coming to Jesus was a pharisee? I think. These are important details to me. Jesus answered that man's question. And the answer was, imo, particularly addressing that individual at that time and at that place. The teaching is very interesting, of course. But I think that without considering whom Jesus is speaking to, a great deal will be lost to the reader.