This is the point, a religious family in a religious community and indoctrinating children into belief they are not able to assess and critique. Even many adults are not taught to think beyond what they believe due to social exveriences?The likelihood is irrelevant. What matters is that it's entirely possible for anyone to reject it, and leave it.
Really, it's that simple? Do you really think young adults who were indoctrinated into a believe system really are free to reject their beliefs if they feel inner pressure to conform? You make it sound like you are asking someone to choose a different brand of cola.People choose to stay or leave it according to their own ideals and experiences.
That is not how social influence works. Look at young girls suffering from depression and commit suicide due to negative exveriences on social media.The religion is not forcibly holding or brainwashing anyone. No religion is. And even what few cults there actually are out there are ultimately voluntary. Their members are choosing to forfeit their freedom of thought and action.
The Dangerous Experiment on Teen Girls
The preponderance of the evidence suggests that social media is causing real damage to adolescents.
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This is an example of how social influence works on the minds of people, especially the young. You will be able to find exceptions of the norm. I experienced subtle influence by adults and family. My grandma would tell to me to do X to please God. She used religious manipulation in an attempt to get me to behave. All that did to me was cause me to ask more questions, I wasn't like my cousins who believed it, sort of. Even though my cousins were Catholic they discovered fast that if mom or dad didn't know about their naughty deeds that they would face no consequences. But they still went to Mass, to confession, believed in God to varying degrees, etc. They toed the line, they didn't reject Catholicism to this day, except two of them. My cousins even raised their kids to be Catholic. You'd think they would remember how much they hated Mass and wouldn't, but that is how the primal brain works, it seeks conformity to build tribal trust and reduse anxiety by creating stability of norms. That primal urge is what keeps so many folks devoted to old norms even in modern times. It's not reason.
Right, people are motivated by tribal comforts.That they like being a part of.
So then why are parents dragging their kids to church on Sunday mornings? I remember going to Sunday school and being told about Jesus, but I definiately asked questions they didn't like. I was one of those annoying kids who kept asking "why?" The teacher exvected us to accept Jesus as savior just as we all accepted Santa Claus. I just happened to be one of the few that didn't just buy into it. My twin sister did, she went from religion to religion through her life seeking the "truth" and was never satisfied. She often joined a church of a friend or boyfriend, and it never stuck. She kind of settled on Urantia, but religion is not very important in her life any more. I think she discovered that truth is not some head full of irrational ideas to believe in. She is like my late mother who still believes in a God. Neither my mom or sister could explain why they believe. I gave them my two cent's worth as to why belief is God is not helpful or rational, and neither had any rebuttal, they just never took time to think about it. But they got the idea of God from somewhere, like the rest of us, and that is family and society. If the ideas are not questioned then they are likely going to be adoted without thought or doubt. And that begins in childhood. You said it yourself "Children are not yet ready to make choices regarding ideals of that level and complexity."Children are not yet ready to make choices regarding ideals of that level and complexity.
Because not all parents are wise. Do you think the MAGA paraents yelling at teachers in school board meetings are raising their kids in a stable home environment? What do you think those kids are learning? How to be reasonable? How to look at other's point of view? How to compromise and work well with others? How many of these kids have access to guns that are not secured?Their parents make those choices for them. But as they become adults, they become able to choose for themselves. I'm not sure why you seem to find this objectionable.
Dogma is taught. The more dogmatic a parent the more dogmatic the influence. You have this rose-colored glasses attitude that is unrealistic.
Did they really think through what they were doing, or just following the social norm? That is the question. Given your distain for atheists I doubt you would support parents influencing kids, and their kid's friends, and other family members, why belief in God is absurd and even dangerous. Do you support parents doing this as their deliberate and reasoned choice?Not really, as your parents had chosen for you just as their parents had chosen for them.
As studies show we humans, especially as we age, make fewer objective and deliberate decisions as you suggest.They knew they had a choice when they became adults. We all do. It's part of becoming an adult.
Human Decision Making - an overview | ScienceDirect Topics
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Jeff Johnson, in Designing with the Mind in Mind (Third Edition), 2021
Important Takeaways
• Human decision-making is strongly biased by unconscious mental processes (system one) that sometimes produce good outcomes quickly but sometimes cause us to make irrational choices. Our rational mind (system two) rarely intervenes.• Fear of loss influences human decisions more than expectation of gains. This bias affects people’s choices in risky situations, like whether to buy insurance, accept lawsuit settlements, gamble, or skydive. Psychologists Kahneman and Tversky conducted experiments demonstrating the pervasiveness and strength of this bias.
• Framing—how a choice is worded—affects how people choose. People prefer a sure thing over a gamble when options are worded as gains, and gambles over sure things when the identical options are worded as losses. This bias makes people susceptible to anchoring: a mind trick where someone sets your expectations to a certain level, then shows you either how to improve your outcome or how to avoid a worse outcome.
• People are biased toward options that are easier to recall or envision. A close relative’s experience with a product influences our willingness to buy it much more than reading statistics or online reviews about the product.
• Our past decisions bias our future ones, because people try to behave consistently. Therefore, people tend to stay with what is familiar, stick with losing causes longer than they should, and like things better if they put more effort into getting them.
• Emotions are critical to decision-making. Without an emotional response of some sort, it is difficult to make decisions.
• Designing to exploit strengths and weaknesses of human decision-making:
• Support rational decision-making: Help system two override or co-opt system one by providing all options, showing alternatives, providing unbiased data, performing calculations for users rather than forcing them to calculate, and checking the assumptions underlying the reasoning.
• Make AI-based systems more transparent.
• Use data visualization to harness system one to support system two.• Use persuasion ethically. Don’t influence people to do what is contrary to their own interests.
I will agree with this, and teaching critical thinking which you decided to ignore (deliberately?). How man parents will protest comparitive religion being taught to their kids if they think their brand of religion is the Truth? Do you really think parents in red states want to risk their kids hearing about Sharia law in Islam? Do you think these parents are rational and making sound judgments (as they still support Trump as president)?All the more reason why we need our schools to teach comparative religion, not hide from it and leave it to ill-informed parents and agenda-seeking politicians.