metis
aged ecumenical anthropologist
Since when do we supposedly have to show kids "everything" in order to teach them? What you're positing is a virtual impossibility.How would a child grow up in this society without knowing what football (or religion) is, even if they weren't immersed in it at home?
No matter how thorough you are exposing kids to stuff they might be passionate about, you won't be able to show them everything. For instance, I'd be useless to teach kids about Asian languages. Would not teaching kids about Asian languages mean that they might miss out on something that inspires them? Sure... but as long as they find something to engage with, mission accomplished.
So then you'd be opposed to an upbringing where kids are pressured to play football alone, and where taking up soccer would create family tension?
Parents make moral decisions and teach morals to kids all the time-- or at least they should. Religion can be just one of those times, and I fail to see how there's some sort of intrinsic harm to kids if they are brought up in a religious setting. Like in pretty much most other areas, kids will grow up and eventually choose for themselves. As I previously mentioned, all three of our "kids" differ in what they eventually settled on.
There are some areas whereas to not do something is actually to do something. If parents don't bring Junior(ette) up with any religious background, the message to him/her is that religion really isn't important. Therefore, to not have any exposure to religion is as "fundamentalist" as being brought up in a fundamentalist religious denomination where kids are kept from being exposed to other religions/denominations. It's just "brainwashing" them so as to achieve a different end.
OTOH, what I believe is a better and fairer way is for parents either to bring up their children in a religion, or not to bring them up in a religion, but either way teach them about various religions along with atheistic and agnostic approaches so that the kids can have more information to eventually make up their own minds.