Victim blaming is common in the lds church, as seen above.
For those reading this, if your child is abused at church, know no one at church will help you - they will not believe you, they will blame you, they will further victimize you and will continue to stand by the pedophile, thinking all callings come from God.
You will need to find a detective who is in no way connected to the church, use therapists who are in no way connected to the church, get restraining orders against those in the church.
I was lucky - in our case, he videotaped what he did, so we had the evidence to convict - he is now in jail the rest of his life, without probation, under Jessica's law.
It is a dangerous church - when people confuse elevation as guidance from God - it leads to abuse/rationalization/warped messiah complex stuff. It is a nightmare, and it is now my job to warn others about what that group really is- a cult.