Alright I am starting to see the point. I am a straight 22 year old male. So when it comes to sex I am like Yes!!!!!!!! Please bear with me.
If that is the case, then you are giving consent. Which is not rape. A woman who is aggressively coming onto you while you are giving consent is not rape. But if you are not giving consent, and she continues to touch, penetrate, or otherwise handle your genitalia, that's assault, not sex.