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Marriage and sexuality

I suggest you understand, no matter what you say

he is scared of penises not being inside vaginas...

I understand perfectly but there is some part of me that just can't look away like driving by a car accident.

I just gotta see what kind of garbage is spewed forth in response to my comments.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
The history of human marriage - Google Books
In this book the author, an anthropologist, shows that throughout the animal kingdom (including primitive humans), those that are monogamous in relationships, do so for the care of the young. some animals have different ways of caring for the young, however they always include a mother and father. Homosexual activity in animals is never monogamous as the breeding and care of offspring still depend on both sexes playing a role in the care of offspring. The only animals that exhibit monogamy are exclusively male-female for the production and care of offspring.

Since SSM pundits are so adamant that we should mimic the animal kingdom [since they always bring up, "But animals do it!"]. Marriages should only be sanctioned between male and female partners for the prospective production and care for offspring.
Since this book was published, animals have learned to communicate with humans via sign language, too. And we didn't know about sterile technique for surgery, nor did we know how diease was communicated. And we were still using leeches freely. Shall we all just reside in the wonderful 19th century?
 

Mr Cheese

Well-Known Member
they had coca cola back in 1891 though

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madhatter85

Transhumanist
Are you under the laughable misapprehension that humans exhibit monogamy? :D * snort*. Dude, you really need to get out more.
Marriage is implied monogamy. They go hand in hand.

It's natural because it occurs throughout nature. And once again, you don't get to decide for all of us what marriage is "about". What makes you qualified to issue a universal proclamation on what marriage means?

I decide what my marriage means. You decide what yours means. You don't get to tell me what my marriage means. And that is the foundation of religious freedom.

For the record, I don't think you really believe the entire meaning of your marriage can be summed up as the exclusive privilege of depositing your sperm in your wife's vagina, but I do find it amusing that you so passionately argue as if this is the case.
The argument is that two people can make a "lifelong commitment together." How is that not implied monogamy? Why do you want our marriage so bad then if you want to define it separately?
 

ragordon168

Active Member
Marriage is implied monogamy. They go hand in hand.


The argument is that two people can make a "lifelong commitment together." How is that not implied monogamy? Why do you want our marriage so bad then if you want to define it separately?

what about polygamy? thats defined as more than two people in a marriage and it is still considered 'better' above gay marriage.

so a straight guy is allowed to marry 7 women but a guy gay isnt even allowed to marry once?
 

Mr Cheese

Well-Known Member
And once again madhatter demonstrates an utter inability to admit factual error.

he's obcessed with penises going in vaginas....

I really do think this obcession is indicative of a deeper problem

one that involves him really liking or wanting somethign else in his life.

Or maybe the matter is far more shallow and less well thought out...

:shrug:
 

Mr Cheese

Well-Known Member
I thought I had better quote this if Auto is on your ignore. That was in response to your marriage = monogamy point. If marriage implied monogamy, how can you explain polygamy in the early LDS church?

those were proto mormons, not real ones...

like the klingons in orignal star trek and klingons in next generation

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Its 19th century...right up hatter's alley....

More Wives Than One offers an in-depth look at the long-term interaction between belief and the practice of polygamy, or plural marriage, among the Latter-day Saints. Focusing on the small community of Manti, Utah, Kathryn M. Daynes provides an intimate view of how Mormon doctrine and Utah laws on marriage and divorce were applied in people's lives.
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Kathryn M. Daynes, an associate professor of history at Brigham Young University, is a contributor to Nauvoo in Mormon History and Fulfilling the Founding: A Reader for American Heritage.
 

Alceste

Vagabond
Marriage is implied monogamy. They go hand in hand.

Baloney. These guys can get married:
http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=133984

And for those of us without a cuckold fetish:


  • Percentage of marriages where one or both spouses admit to infidelity, either physical or emotional: 41%
  • Percentage of men who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they've had: 57%
  • Percentage of women who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they've had: 54%
  • Percentage of men and women who admit to having an affair with a co-worker: 36%
  • Percentage of men and women who admit to infidelity on business trips: 36%
  • Percentage of men and women who admit to infidelity (emotional or physical) with a brother-in-law or sister-in-law: 17%
  • Average length of an affair: 2 years
  • Percentage of marriages that last after an affair has been admitted to or discovered: 31%
  • Percentage of men who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught: 74%
  • Percentage of women who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught: 68%
source


The argument is that two people can make a "lifelong commitment together." How is that not implied monogamy? Why do you want our marriage so bad then if you want to define it separately?

I don't want your marriage (especially considering your views on sexuality) - I want mine, and I don't want you or the members of your cult abusing the powers of my secular government to interfere with it. But that's a moot point, because I'm straight, and even if I wasn't straight, I'm Canadian, so I get to marry whoever I want.

My marriage (if I marry) will be a lifelong familial partnership, but sexual monogamy is not a deal-breaker for me, as if it's any of your business. I could take it or leave it. My feelings for Wampus are much deeper and more complex and meaningful than mere sexual possessiveness.
 
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ragordon168

Active Member
1 question madhatter. if your wife came up to you tomorrow and admited she was bi and wanted a threesome with you and her hot best friend -who is also bi - would you say no? because i cant think of any red blooded man that would. and technically its not cheating because shes there.

the only problem i could see you having is it voiding your marriage as of the 'implied monogomy' which went out the window for that.
 

madhatter85

Transhumanist
@madhatter: I thought I had better quote this if Auto is on your ignore. That was in response to your marriage = monogamy point. If marriage implied monogamy, how can you explain polygamy in the early LDS church?
I was excluding religious marriages considering their arguments that marriage existed before religion.
 
Monogamous animal homosexual relationships end in extinction of that line. How is that a good thing? Monogamous relationships in animals are for propagation and care of the progeny. Clearly, nature got flawed up when two male penguins start trying to produce offspring. :rolleyes:

That is not the argument. You specifically said, "Homosexual activity in animals is never monogamous as the breeding and care of offspring still depend on both sexes playing a role in the care of offspring. The only animals that exhibit monogamy are exclusively male-female for the production and care of offspring.

the statement that homosexuality is natural because animals do it does not apply to monogamous relationships, which is inherently what marriage is about."

In which case you were proven wrong by two different postings 493 and 498 specifically in which it was shown that male penguins will and do participate in a monogamous lifelong homosexual relationship in which, given the chance, will undoubtedly raise offspring as if they were a "normal" mating pair.

Also I believe your argument has been about survival of the species and not a particular genetic line. In this case homosexual couples have and do adopt children and raise them to be healthy productive people thus they do contribute to the survival of our species while in monogamous relationships.
 

Autodidact

Intentionally Blank
I was excluding religious marriages considering their arguments that marriage existed before religion.

This is just bizarre logic. Plural wives in Utah in the 1890's weren't legally married? Plural wives in Saudi Arabia today aren't legally married? A huge percentage of cultures around the world practice polygamy, religious or otherwise, and they don't exist because...if they did, then madhatter would be wrong?
According to the Ethnographic Atlas Codebook, of the 1231 societies noted, 186 were monogamous. 453 had occasional polygyny, 588 had more frequent polygyny, and 4 had polyandry.
[wiki] So...wait for it...madhatter is factually wrong. I'm shocked, I tell you. And now we all wait for him to admit it. *goes to get sleeping bag and food stores*
 
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