Men and women. Friends or foes?

[Father Heathen]

I am very proud of my fellow Italian girls... how they were available and open to that scrumptious male prey.


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[Estro Felino]

Yeah it hasn’t sounded very accurate, truth be told. But I’m not American so

I was generalizing of course...
But you do see lots of women in football stadiums...so I assumed...

 

[Estro Felino]

Don’t know about Americans.
But I can certainly see some Aussie gals throwing a few punches.
Or if they’re in a club, a splashing a drink over them or even worse (we call it “being glassed” here.)
Doesn’t matter if you’re an Adonis, you respect personal boundaries like a grown up or suffer the consequences.
And I am a heterosexual woman by the way.
Not that it matters.
I’ve had to comfort a few of my gay pals over the years over just such a thing. Unfortunately

I understand,...
but we are speaking of a tall, fit, gorgeous man wearing jeans...
with a deep sexy voice.
Flesh is weak. I know my fellow Italians...they melt as soon as they see him and hear him.

 

[SomeRandom]

I understand,...
but we are speaking of a tall, fit, gorgeous man wearing jeans...
with a deep sexy voice.
Flesh is weak. I know my fellow Italians...they melt as soon as they see him and hear him.

Lol so?
I’ve seen muscular fit strapping young men get kicked in the nether region. Presumably for ticking off the girl he was flirting with
Real life is not some romance magazine or book.
Some people might be “ready to go.”
Depending on how err thirsty they may be. That’s not everyone though.

 

[Estro Felino]

Lol so?
I’ve seen muscular fit strapping young men get kicked in the nether region. Presumably for ticking off the girl he was flirting with
Real life is not some romance magazine or book.
Some people might be “ready to go.”
Depending on how err thirsty they may be. That’s not everyone though.

You can also say these males to check out my country...if you want...

 

[SomeRandom]

I was generalizing of course...
But you do see lots of women in football stadiums...so I assumed...

You know what they say when you assume, don’t you?

Quotes - You should never assume.

You should never assume. Get all the details, meaning, context, and even a pretentious factor for good measure.

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[SomeRandom]

You can also say these males to step by in my country...if you want...

I’d rather be more..direct in my response. Just so there’s no misunderstandings

 

[Estro Felino]

I’d rather be more..direct in my response. Just so there’s no misunderstandings

I have heard delicious things about Australian males...
seriously...

 

[SomeRandom]

I have heard delicious things about Australian males...
seriously...

They can be pretty alright

 

[Father Heathen]

You can also say these males to check out my country...if you want...

So Italian women are doormats and welcome rude, disrespectful, and abusive behavior?

Does that inadvertantly make my harsh, snarky posts charming and flirtatious?

 

[Estro Felino]

So Italian women are doormats and welcome rude, disrespectful, and abusive behavior?

Does that inadvertently make my harsh, snarky posts charming and flirtatious?

Disrespectful?
LoL...
Come on...

 

[SkepticThinker]

It depends on what a man says.
If a man just yells at a woman how beautiful she is, and then he walks on by, that can be flattering.
As far as I am concerned.

If a man stops the woman and harasses her...that's harassment.

I don't want anybody yelling anything about my looks or my body or whatever at me when I'm trying to mind my own business and walk down the street. Thanks anyway.

 

[JustGeorge]

I don't want anybody yelling anything about my looks or my body or whatever at me when I'm trying to mind my own business and walk down the street. Thanks anyway.

I don't know. The day I went out with seat of my pants missing(not realizing there was an incident with the washing machine) and nothing on underneath....

Well, I sure wish some of the gardeners on the block would have shouted to me what was wrong rather than giving me funny looks... I got awfully far from home before I realized I had a problem.

So Italian women are doormats and welcome rude, disrespectful, and abusive behavior?

Does that inadvertantly make my harsh, snarky posts charming and flirtatious?

My husband worked with a family of Italians when he was learning his trade. He rather reported the women in this family was tough and didn't put up with a lot of nonsense.

But, he did say all of the women dyed their hair light blonde, and he couldn't figure out why.

 

[SkepticThinker]

I don't know. The day I went out with seat of my pants missing(not realizing there was an incident with the washing machine) and nothing on underneath....

Well, I sure wish some of the gardeners on the block would have shouted to me what was wrong rather than giving me funny looks... I got awfully far from home before I realized I had a problem.

LOL I was just thinking I probably should have added a caveat ... and there it is.

My husband worked with a family of Italians when he was learning his trade. He rather reported the women in this family was tough and didn't put up with a lot of nonsense.

But, he did say all of the women dyed their hair light blonde, and he couldn't figure out why.

 

[Estro Felino]

My husband worked with a family of Italians when he was learning his trade. He rather reported the women in this family was tough and didn't put up with a lot of nonsense.

But, he did say all of the women dyed their hair light blonde, and he couldn't figure out why.

Did you watch the video?

He's gorgeous...
A gorgeous straight man is very rare...in Italy. Trust me.
These girls can't believe their own eyes. He's very sweet, kind...and so on.
I do hope that at least one of these girls really enjoyed his company...privately... lol

 

[JustGeorge]

Did you watch the video?

He's gorgeous...
A gorgeous straight man is very rare...in Italy. Trust me.
These girls can't believe their own eyes. He's very sweet, kind...and so on.
I do hope that at least one of these girls really enjoyed his company...privately... lol

No, I didn't. I don't often watch videos, typically only when I feel its entirely relevant.

I don't know if he's gorgeous... that's all kinda subjective.

 

[Revoltingest]

I am noting also that European women have much less taboos...and they are much more disinhibited.
Than in the US.
Women here make the first move. It's not considered inappropriate.

There's much less misandry here. My female friends and I never bad-mouth men...or never say they are some potential rapists, if they are available and heterosexual.
Quite the opposite: I hear them complain 24/7 that the best and most handsome men are all gay...and so they have to be content with second-choices, that are straight.

If you've never lived here, how are you making this judgment?
- Based on movies?
- Based on what news media choose to cover?
- Based upon which of the above you choose to view & hear.

 

[Estro Felino]

If you've never lived here, how are you making this judgment?
- Based on movies?
- Based on what news media choose to cover?

Movies, TV shows and media.

 

[Estro Felino]

No, I didn't. I don't often watch videos, typically only when I feel its entirely relevant.

I don't know if he's gorgeous... that's all kinda subjective.

I guess American women would have had another reaction...right?

 

[JustGeorge]

Movies, TV shows and media.

I can assure you, what most of us live in over here is nothing like the movies.