Guys, let's see if my beliefs are of any use to you to clarify why God helps some people and not others...
I believe a Universal God, if He exists, is totally indifferent to us puny humans. He (although assigning "Him" a gender is probably ridiculous) is more busy with great tasks as the spin of galaxies, the orbits of planets and the making of new suns... He doesn't care if you suffer because of testicles cancer or you burn slowly alive in a fire.
What happens in our lives is the result of the state of our minds. The Buddha said it. If only that would be taught at schools... but it's not. So the result is people looking for a God as the responsible for their lives and that's a big mistake. It all comes down to ourselves.
I do believe though that there are compassionate superior beings in other levels/planes/dimensions of the Universe who are willing to help us, only if we call them. And the reason why we must give them energy (e.g. candles) and repeat prayers or mantras to them is because we must open our minds to get their help. We must even open our minds for them to help them change our minds! If we don't change our mind, we don't change our lives. Notice most mantras, prayers and affirmations are repeated. That is to get them into our subconscious minds.
If we have in our minds the ideas of a complex of inferiority or punishment, we will be continually underestimated and suffer the most horrible punishments; because those ideas become manifest in our lives!
That's why "God" didn't care about what Nazis did. Some Jews even thought they were getting what they deserved because they were "sinners". And "I'm a sinner who deserves to be punished" is a horrible concept to have in your mind!
So it's always the victim's fault? Yes and no. Yes, because the victim didn't make any effort to change his or her mind. And no, because the victim was never taught that he or she had to change his mind in the first place.
That's why the Elites that ruled this World for thousands of years have most of the time, hidden occult knowledge. Because they want our lives to go on in misery, enslaved by them. That "occult knowledge" is nothing else than the methods to improve our own minds. Elites just take advantage of the sorry state of our minds; not considering that their minds, although more illuminated than ours, are still not fully awakened of course.
Seems a bit like speculation to me - and especially about the 'elites' - the powerful always will be in charge probably but there doesn't have to be much more of a reason for this other than greed and inertia - their wealth passing on to their kin.